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The first time ever I saw your face

When I hear that song by Roberta Flack, I now think about my sons. The song never really meant anything to me before, but has now taken on a whole new meaning. I remember vividly the first time I saw the faces of my children. The sun did rise in their eyes! The moon and the stars still are the gifts they bring.

Added by anne on April 19, 2014 at 9:16pm — No Comments

Shot In the Head

My son was with a girl and her brother he new on September 30, 2012. The girl told police that my son shot himself in the head. I know my son and her brother got into an altercation about money, something that was not right I believe her brother shot my son and blamed it on my only Son. Pray for and my job and real answers. The boy called 911. This is driving me crazy.

Added by Bern on April 16, 2014 at 11:35pm — No Comments

The Most Important Death

John 3:16 — “For God loved the world so much that he gave his only-begotten Son, so that everyone exercising faith in him might not be destroyed but have everlasting life.



1 John 4:9,10 — By this the love of God was revealed in our case, that God sent his only-begotten Son into the world so that we might gain life through him. 10 The love is in this respect, not that we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a propitiatory sacrifice for our sins.



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Added by Dennis C. on March 28, 2014 at 7:00am — 1 Comment

can god sea us

can god sea us…

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Added by dream moon JO B on March 14, 2014 at 4:28pm — 1 Comment

3 weeks today

It's been 3 weeks to today that I lost you Tom and it's still so hard to believe that you aren't coming back.

Added by susan j. on March 12, 2014 at 1:49pm — No Comments

Today I have no voice

Today I have no voice. I have been pretty sick these past days. I haven't had food in 7 days. My stomach won't hold anything, and they don't know what's wrong. A very sweet, and wonderful friend of mine passed away last week, and I just found out today. My heart is broken. My eyes are blinded with tears. Today my hope is gone. Today I am scraping the bottom of the barrel for just one glimpse of light. Dear God, I know you are here, but I can't feel you near me today. I'm so tired. I feel so…

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Added by anne on March 10, 2014 at 9:37pm — No Comments

Peace to You Today

I want to thank you all for your comments and kindness. I have not given up on life, but I have given myself a break and allowed myself to fully feel the pain of my losses. I am moving through one day at a time and trying to stay productive. Blessings to all of you.

Added by Gail M. on March 4, 2014 at 7:33pm — No Comments

dad i miss u

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Added by dream moon JO B on March 3, 2014 at 2:00am — No Comments

Doesn't feel right

It's hasn't been  2 weeks yet that I lost my best friend  and love of my life. Last week after Tom past I went to my grand daughters 6th birthday and yesterday I got out and went to my niece's 18th birthday. I had fun,  it was good to see family but yet Tom wasn't there and it didn't feel right being there and I really couldn't wait to get home even though I knew Tom wasn't going to be here. So empty and lost.

Added by susan j. on March 2, 2014 at 7:51am — No Comments

Doesn't feel right

It's hasn't been  2 weeks yet that I lost my best friend  and love of my life. Last week after Tom past I went to my grand daughters 6th birthday and yesterday I got out and went to my niece's 18th birthday. I had fun,  it was good to see family but yet Tom wasn't there and it didn't feel right being there and I really couldn't wait to get home even though I knew Tom wasn't going to be here. So empty and lost.

Added by susan j. on March 2, 2014 at 7:51am — No Comments

What do you do?

On January 31, 2014 my partner of eight years had an argument because she had been cheating on me and I was DONE. During the night she was restless and kept waking me up wanting to know where my phone was or where the charger was. Then she said "You're gonna learn." She was alive when I left Saturday morning. She had written a note but my anger and hurt from her betrayal blinded me to the contents of the letter. I wrote her a letter back telling her to go be happy. I assumed she would be…

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Added by Danielle Hamilton on February 28, 2014 at 12:23pm — 1 Comment

When death and career collide ( in need of help)

Hello reader,



My brother was murdered while serving legal documents about three years ago now. I still grieve for him everyday. This was my job for over twenty years and after his death I continued for another two years. I had a bit of a breakdown after a lot of pent up feelings surfaced. I vowed to never be threatened in the way my brother must have been for a twenty five dollar service for an uncaring attorney. Never again. It's been a year. I have been job searching for months.… Continue

Added by Leslie Brown on February 27, 2014 at 12:35pm — No Comments

I wish I could talk to someone about this that really understood but instead I clean clean like crazy and work work real hard and discipline myself with what I eat and continue to lose weight 44 lbs …

I wish I could talk to someone about this that really understood but instead I clean clean like crazy and work work real hard and discipline myself with what I eat and continue to lose weight 44 lbs so far and keep so busy i dont think or hurt only on nights like this when it finally catches up some comfort in knowing i really am not alone.. Continue

Added by Cyn Rios on February 26, 2014 at 6:47pm — No Comments

Contemplation

I contemplate contacting the killer I guess i want to convince myself he is not evil he made a mistake hes repentful I can forgive truly forgive him..can I? I try..He took my brother and 2 others wasnt there another way?? I want to yell at him, wasnt there another way???? Did you have to kill him, (Im screaming at him these words) Why Brian, did you go down that path why did you not heed my warnings in the letters why did you have to go so young, barely experiencing life..Just don't get it..

Added by Cyn Rios on February 26, 2014 at 6:38pm — No Comments

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Added by Diana, Grief Recovery Coach on February 24, 2014 at 7:21pm — 1 Comment

Love never ending

When he came to the end of his journey, traveled his last weary mile.

I submit sometimes he frowned, but only remember his smile.

As I work on this list trying hard to resist, all that made me sad.

I remember the good he has done all the fum we had.

You see his love is never ending and to this I can attest.

And come in the shade of evening when the sun paints the sky in the west, He stands for a few moments besides me and I remember only his…

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Added by Theresa on February 21, 2014 at 8:12pm — No Comments

My Angel

As I sit and wonder about this day.

I kneel to God and begin to pray.

Help me dear Father, when the pain is so great.

To understand his destiny was not mine to orchestrate.

You let me enjoy him and make memories.

Then you took him to heaven to abide with Thee.

So I'll accept your doing, even though I don't understand.

For I must be someone special to have held a true…

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Added by Theresa on February 18, 2014 at 8:37am — 4 Comments

getting over brothers suicide

about two months ago my teacher told me that she is so sorry about my loss. then she told me that my brother killed himself my brother was my every thing I keep thinking that if I didn't go to school my brother would still be alive. I miss him so so much

Added by noga Elmo on February 17, 2014 at 8:43pm — No Comments

Emotionally cold?

Today has been the day from hell!  

My daughter and her young children moved home a month ago so she can get back on her feet.  I have done everything that I can help her and the kids.  Paid their bills, fed them, kept a roof over their head and never put pressure on them.  However, last night my daughter asked for the father of her children to spend the night.  I stuck by my word there will be no sleep overs.  Of course this led to drama, where her and my husband got into an…

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Added by Tracey L on February 16, 2014 at 6:50pm — No Comments

It's been a couple months

Lately I have been struggling and going through a rough time again. My moms anniversary was last week and i've been so busy with life that i'm having a hard time to keep myself floating above water. I feel this rage in me that i'm trying to control. I cant help but be in a bad mood right now and being around people certainly doesn't help. This loss is a big one because my mother was my best friend as a child and i had to grow up without her. I'm at a loss at what to do at this point, i'm…

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Added by Kelsie on February 15, 2014 at 11:42pm — No Comments

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