Today has been the day from hell!  

My daughter and her young children moved home a month ago so she can get back on her feet.  I have done everything that I can help her and the kids.  Paid their bills, fed them, kept a roof over their head and never put pressure on them.  However, last night my daughter asked for the father of her children to spend the night.  I stuck by my word there will be no sleep overs.  Of course this led to drama, where her and my husband got into an argument this morning.

I woke up to them screaming at each other and no room to get a word in edgewise..  All of this led to her packing a bag and leaving with the children, saying we will never see them again.  I know these are childish words.  I am just stumped.

My daughter finally told me that I am emotionally cold since my mother passed away.  I had not realized I was emotionally cold, but I do know that I cannot handle fighting and arguing.  I know their fight this morning was not my fault, but for some reason I am being blamed in part for what happened.