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Comment by dream moon JO B on October 30, 2012 at 4:22pm

i  no how u feal debra it hurts me evry day tht my dad has gone i no its only bean march this yer and it still hurts i no i dream abot him im pleased the nite mare flash bac hav stopet and the nise dreams r coming bac

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on October 28, 2012 at 9:34pm

Thank you nadia.  I am sorry for your loss.  My Dad would be mad to see me crying over him, but I am an emotional person.  And as my brother says I wear my heart on my sleeve.  I haven't felt him around me but I'm syre he is here.  That is why I go to the cemetary to see him.  That gives me comfort.  My thoughts and prayers for you.

Comment by nadia on October 28, 2012 at 8:57pm

so sorry you are here too debra....a group none of us wish to join but gives some relief when other cannot help much.. I know the feelings ... you speak to my heart... I lost my wonderful sister my soulmate in may 2011 and to this day the pain ir raw and i often feel guilt replaying random moments of our life when I could have done things better.... at times i do not seem to be able to have a life without her but there are some better days too... i miss her every second though and the hole in my heart will never be healed....i think you dad did not want you to suffer.. he is with you around you.... 

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on October 28, 2012 at 6:37pm

I am new to the group.  Earlier I thought I was making a post but sent an e-mail to everyone in the group, I am sorry.  Should I repost my story here on the comment wall?  Thank you for your help and understanding.

Comment by Laurie Finch on October 28, 2012 at 9:30am

I am tired of pretending everything is ok, cause its not! I won't accept they are gone! and i am mad , The pain is just so bad!

Comment by Joseph G. Bartlett on October 23, 2012 at 9:20am

Thank you Kitty Peine for seeing how it is .The day Sept 16,2012 on her mothers birthday my wife died along with my smile. thank you

Comment by Kitty Peine on October 23, 2012 at 7:18am

Joseph, I am not giong to alievate anything for you cuz no one can. But here is my experience. I have 5 other siblings. No one was able to help me grieve. I was very alone. The boys dad is one of 8. No help there either. Not because they didn't want to, there is just nothing anyone can do. When Craiger died in 1990 ane when Kev died in 2012 the only people that helped me was people who had lost because they knew how it felt. They knew exactly how devestating, how final, how debilitating this is. I hate that you have to go through this.

Comment by Joseph G. Bartlett on October 23, 2012 at 6:11am

YOU KNOW I HATE THE FACT THAT MY WIFE IS DEAD AND I HATE  THE FACT THAT IM ALONE IN THIS  AND THE ONLY PEOPLE TO TALK TO IS EITHER TO YOUNG OR TO OLD  TO UNDERSTAND ME  I HAVE NO BROTHERS OR SISTERS  FAMILY OF ENY KIND FROM BOTH SIDES AS WELL  I HATE THE FACT THAT ME ANDD MY BELOVED WIFE WERE ONLY CHILDREN  NOBODY SHOULD MOURN ALONE BUT IT SEEMS THAT WHAT IM STUCK WITH  AND I HATE THE FACT THAT IT WASN'T ME INSTEAD  I WOULD OF GLADY HAVE GONE IN HER PLACE WITH OUT QUESTION        

                                   I     JUST    H   A    T   E   

Comment by Laurie Finch on October 23, 2012 at 5:24am

my heart is broken and I hurt so bad, does this get any easier?

Comment by Laurie Finch on October 23, 2012 at 5:22am

How do you get through the holidays? I am dreading them and want to skip over them if I could. I plan on not decorating at all or celebrating  :(

 

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