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Comment by joanne on February 25, 2016 at 12:25pm

Hi bluebird , ive just read the poem you recommend, and your so right, its a great poem, it really sums up my feelings. I'm taking my children to the beach in a couple of months, and I'm frightened of the effect it will have on me, Isn't it just another screwed up thing about losing someone , that makes everything that was once beautiful( ie the beach) be another place of hell. Xxxx

Comment by bluebird on February 25, 2016 at 10:39am

Exactly, joanne. i do sometimes go sit on the beach, or rather i did in the first few months after he died, because he loves the beach and it was right across from our apt. i haven't gone back to the beach in three years, though. Anyway, the dreary weather better suits who i am now. Have you ever read Auden's poem "Funeral Blues"? It perfectly describes how I feel. I'm typing this on my phone, and can't provide a link, but if you google W.H. Auden and "Funeral Blues", you'll find it. It's a great poem.

Comment by joanne on February 25, 2016 at 10:08am

Bluebird,I too prefer the cloudy, rainy dreary days , the sun does nothing for me now, I'll never walk again with Andy in the park or on a beach like we did when the sun was shining, So I just want to stay alone in the dark now xx

Comment by Robin Quinn on February 24, 2016 at 10:32pm

5 weeks today.  I still can't comprehend that he's gone.  I can't function at work.  I haven't worked a full day of work since he left me.  I'm so tired of hurting and knowing there's nothing I can do about it.  I can see why people hurt themselves when something like this happens to them.  I'm not at that point, but I sure understand.  I feel like starting to drink and not quitting.  I miss him so much......

Comment by bluebird on February 23, 2016 at 9:56pm

I want my husband back too.  Failing that, I want to be with him wherever he is.

I prefer the cloudy, rainy, dreary days though -- the sunny days just piss me off, because there should be no sun when my beloved is dead.

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 23, 2016 at 7:37am

I hate dreary days with no sun, it makes my days without my wonderful husband harder.

Comment by George H on February 23, 2016 at 7:20am

Mary will be gone one year tomorrow my life hasn't gotten any better this is truly a f credit way to live still living in my room don't care if the world axplods

Comment by O.L. Cato on February 23, 2016 at 6:54am

I want my husband back.

Comment by Marjorie Guthrie on February 18, 2016 at 7:33pm

I'm so sorry Robin that was so quick. I know how your feeling.I only hope time will make us stronger.

Comment by Robin Quinn on February 18, 2016 at 7:07pm

Marjorie, my husband was diagnosed on December 17 and passed away on Jan. 20.  I am still in shock with how fast he went. I'm sorry for your loss.

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