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Comment by christianlee on September 22, 2011 at 10:31am

Yes.....I know about the nights...I can't sleep....I sit up and think about my dad. I agree with you about the nights.

Comment by christianlee on September 22, 2011 at 9:38am

Sorry for your loss Panni. So sad for you and your children. I'm sorry for your loss. I feel the same about living in a fog.

Comment by christianlee on September 21, 2011 at 4:39pm

Thank you for your encouraging words. They are comforting to me.

Comment by MIchael A Ballard on September 20, 2011 at 9:48am

I'm very sorry for your loss Christianlee.  Trauma and grief are two very difficult things to deal with.  I know for a fact that the trauma (shock) does lighten up eventually.

In my case, I wasn't able to go to my mothers or wife's graves for months.  I had to face my fears and just do it.  It also took months to go through my wife's personal things, but I did it.  So, the shock does fade, but the grief is a real trip.

Still, it's nothing we can't go through and accomplish.  Many people have, and you will make it too.  

Here for you,

Wish you peace!
Michael 

Comment by christianlee on September 5, 2011 at 9:53am

Thank you Anne. Your reply made me cry. Thank you for letting me know that I'm not alone. I just miss him so much.

Comment by anne on September 3, 2011 at 10:20pm

Dear Christianlee, I am so sad for you. As I was reading your story tears came to my eyes because I wish I could let you know that your Dad did know you loved him and my heart says that he knows how grateful your are to have had him in your life. Through everything i've been through and trust me it's alot the one thing I was always sure of is that my boys knew I loved them and I was sure they knew how grateful I was and always will be to have had them in my earthly life. As a mother just watching my kids grow and going through all the stuff we do as parents I feel their love in everything.So i'm thinking that your Dad probably does too.

Comment by christianlee on September 3, 2011 at 3:40am

Hi I just lost my Dad this summer. Three days before his anniversary. And four days before my birthday. Saddest birthday ever. I didn't get to tell my Dad goodbye. He passed so suddenly from a blood clot. We were close and saw him everyday. I just wish that dreaded day I would have seen him and told him I loved him and thank him for being a great dad and papa to my boys. Life without is is very hard and I feel so sad without him. He is all I think about. Its hard to accept.

Comment by dlchism on September 1, 2011 at 10:29pm

anna l.  thank you.  I will sleep better tonight knowing I am not in this alone.  I am sorry for your loss also and will say a prayer for you too tonight.

Comment by anna l. on September 1, 2011 at 9:23pm

DL, you asked for a hug in your other post.  Well here are a whole bunch of gentle holding you up hugs.  My husband passed away on July 1st so I know the pain you are in today.  You are still reeling from the shock.  Nothing I can say can help, but knowing other people understand and care does help.  Hugs dear comrade in this society of grief.  I will be thinking of you in the days to come.

Comment by dlchism on September 1, 2011 at 6:51pm

I lost my husband suddenly on August 5th.  He went into the hospital for a 'routine' procedure he had had done twice before.  Something went tragically wrong and I am left alone and suffering.

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