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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

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Traumatic, Sudden Loss

I have started this group for people who like myself have suddenly, tragically and traumatically lost a loved one.

My mom died 8 weeks ago (August 17, 2009) She had been sick but I did not know the true extent of her illness. Her doctor knew she did not have long and I went to each doctor visit and talked to him at the hospital and he never told me and I do not believe mom knew either. I am not sure.

I found my mom sitting up on her bed and I know I knew she was gone. I still am in deep shock and cry occasionally but only a minute or two. Then I am back to not feeling or feel numb.

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Loss of boyfriend due to motorcycle 3 Replies

Hello everyone, my name is Brittany. I am new to this and not quiet sure how this works. My therapist pointed me in this direction so i thought i would give it a try. I am 24 years old from…Continue

Started by Brittany. Last reply by Denise D Jan 31, 2021.

New to the Group

Hello All-I am a new widow as my husband passed away April 21, 2018 at the age of 49. He suffered a heart attack and had no previous history of any heart conditions nor does it run in his family.  I…Continue

Started by Danielle Wood Aug 2, 2018.

Struggling 2 Replies

Hi. My name is Cristal. I lost the love of my life on July 2nd. He had leukemia and had no idea. I begged him to see a doctor in the months prior to his death but he would not do it. He also suffered…Continue

Started by Cristal. Last reply by Cristal Aug 1, 2018.

My "Little Brother"

Hi Everyone, My name is Carlyn, and I live in the Ft. Lauderdale area. I joined this site because a very dear friend of mine was killed in a hit-and-run accident in May. My friend Rick, whom I called…Continue

Tags: violent, death, loss, sudden, friend

Started by Carlyn Jorgensen Aug 28, 2017.

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Comment by Holly Jean Comstock on December 11, 2011 at 12:00pm

Thanks Anna appreciate your welcoming me to the grief group and support

Comment by anna l. on December 10, 2011 at 11:28pm

Brenda and Holly, sorry you have a need for this group, sorry you have the pain of this, but glad you found this special place. 

 

Comment by Holly Jean Comstock on December 10, 2011 at 11:15pm

Thanks for welcoming me Christianlee. Bless you also

Comment by christianlee on December 10, 2011 at 10:04pm
So sorry Holly. May God give you blessings of support through this difficult time. Take care and God bless.
Comment by Holly Jean Comstock on December 10, 2011 at 9:55pm

Hello everyone I joined Grief support today. On my page I shared the passing of Heather My 19 yr. old Daughter. She passed away on Oct. 10th 2010 in the US 23 highway car accident near Okemos, MI I miss Heather so much, She was my best friend and a blessed gift to my husband and I. I'm struggling to get through the days. Thanks for listening

Comment by Brenda Doughty on December 8, 2011 at 10:57am

Thank you :)

Comment by Kandi Broussard on December 8, 2011 at 10:40am

Brenda, I am so sorry.  Losing a loved one is extraordinarily difficult especially during this time of the year.  I pray that God will comfort and guide you now and always...   Kandi

Comment by Brenda Doughty on December 8, 2011 at 10:24am

Hey everyone. My husband had a heart attack and died November 20th. I am just reaching out because I miss him and I am incredibly sad.

Brenda

Comment by mercy on November 26, 2011 at 12:41pm

Hi Anna; it went well. I hosted thanksgiving and had my daughters birthday yesterday. The days leading to it all were overwhelming. Having to get the house ready, shopping etc was hard gievn that I wasn't in a celebratory mood at all. None the less; it all went smoothly. My sister (bless her heart) did all the cooking, my daughter was kept occupied by numerous friends and my brother helped with some of the cleaning. I'm glad I hosted it. My family knows I would want to lock myself in a dark room for months so they are trying their best to help me out. Thanks very much for your thoughts and prayers.

 

Comment by christianlee on November 24, 2011 at 12:27pm
Thinking of all of you today. This day will be very difficult. Dad always greeted me outside.
 

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