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Comment by Patricia Hoffman on May 5, 2013 at 7:30pm

I am getting lots of help, just not helping..........it was my 3 year old  handson granddaughter

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on May 5, 2013 at 7:20pm

Patricia,

I'm sad to hear how broken hearted you are.  If you haven't done so already, please seek help.  I have been seeing a therapist (does not prescribe meds) and she has helped me a great deal.  I think it helped just to talk to someone who didn't judge me and was neutral.  I'm sure the person you lost would not want you to grieve like this.  Please take care of yourself.

Comment by Patricia Hoffman on May 5, 2013 at 5:09pm

I am afraid I am going to die of a broken heart, it says on the internet that can happen, and I have been sobbing for 4 weeks now... :(

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on May 5, 2013 at 5:06pm

Hi Ron,

I am so very sorry for your loss.  I can't even imagine your experience.  I can understand how you would relive it.  If there is a blessing in any of that, it would be that she went peacefully.  But not a good thing for you to experience.  I pray with time you will be able to heal and focus on all your fond memories and not that night.  I lost my father a little over 7 months ago and found that honoring/remembering him has been helpful for me.  Maybe you can do some things for your wife.  Sharing your feeling with others may also help you to heal.  I wish you well and take care.

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 4, 2013 at 3:50pm

im so sory for yore loss ron i dont no wot i wud hav dun if i had not fond ths webste lst yr 

i no afttr my dad died last yr i woz lft wi a fobia of hospitlas wish is still wit me now 

Comment by Ron Poire on May 4, 2013 at 3:40pm

I am new to this site, don't know where else to turn. I lost my wife on march 15 2013. I watched her health get worsefor the past year, in and out of the hospital. She was born with a bad heart,and also had diabetes and I was aware of that. We were working to get her ready for heart valve replacement. She wound up getting an infection in her foot and had most of her foot amputated.Somehow the infection never went away. They called in the mrsa infection. When she came home for the last time she had balloned up by about 75 pounds, couldn't walk without a walker and then only a few steps. We were injecting anti-biotics and blood thinners daily.

Her last night, she was very upbeat and felt well. We went to bed and she rolled over and started to fall out of bed, I caught her but couldn't wake her. Called 911 and did cpr till they got here, but she was already gone.

I can't stop reliving that night over and over again the pain gets to be unbearable. I know it will never stop ,butIwishIcould learn how to cope with it.

 

Comment by Patricia Hoffman on April 26, 2013 at 3:36pm

I am s sorry for everyones losses, my was my 3 year old granddaughter, just 3 weeks ago...........we babysat so it was like losing my own child, who I also grieve for........I dont think I can get through this.. :(

Comment by JM on April 24, 2013 at 6:48am

I lost my dad three and half years ago - he was murdered (stabbed over six times) my my step brother who was addicted to meth. He never was put in prison for this. his mother got him out of it all. (My step mom of course).

Anyways. I try to move forward but I fall behind alot emotionally (of course only inside) and I just feel so betrayed and empty when I think how my dad was hurt so badly and died like that......

Comment by Patricia Hoffman on April 23, 2013 at 7:54pm

Has anyone lost a small child or small granfdchild?

Comment by Patricia Hoffman on April 15, 2013 at 7:22pm

Can someone that can relate to my story, please look at it and respond to me? I am not well at all

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