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Comment by Maddy on June 6, 2013 at 10:32am

Connie, I am so sorry for your loss. It is unfair that someone else's actions have taken away your son. I understand what you mean about shock. My mother passed away suddenly 3 months ago and I still have these very surreal moments where I forget that she is gone or where I am in complete disbelief that she is not here anymore. They are the worst. Everytime I remember she is gone it is like the walls come crashing down all over again.

There is nothing I can say to take away your pain, however I can tell you that this community is a very safe place to express yourself, event just vent sometimes.

My thought are with you, as they are with everyone who is grieving.

Comment by Connie K on June 3, 2013 at 5:41pm

My son was stolen from us on Dec. 1, 2012 as a passenger in a tragic car accident. I still feel like i"m in shock and sometimes when I go by his room I just can't understand how he can possibly be gone, forever. I will never see his sweet face again or hear him call "Mom!" How can this be? He should be graduating tomorrow and I still just can't believe he's gone even though I live the nightmare. How can he be gone? Just like that? With no warning. No goodbye. Oh God I miss you so much my sweet angel boy. More and more every second...

Comment by Patricia Hoffman on June 2, 2013 at 11:46am

Thank You everyone, I feel so lost, and like I am going to go crazy, losing my mom has been my worst fear since I was a child, and losing my granddaughter, was never even something I would have though could ever happen......I have been crying for 2 months, and my mom always comforted me, now she is gone, and I dont know what to do with myself, I just want to sleep. :(

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on May 31, 2013 at 5:28pm

Patricia,

I'm not sure words can express how shocked I am to hear this or comfort you.  I am terribly sorry for another loss.  My condolences, thoughts and prayers for you and your family.  God Bless.

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 31, 2013 at 4:10pm

so sory patricica abot yore mom grandorter life can raly suck it can all i no im sic of death i woz hoping for a betr strt in 2013 aftr lst yrs of lozing my dad surgate uncle so on but i did not espect to hav a run of death in 2013

i dont no whot i wud of dun if i had not fond ths web site peple on hear understand our pain

it least on hear i dont get get over it it s easy coz im ot bean fair to thr fealingss 

i hop to god thy will nevr evr hav to loze peple we love lkee we hav on hear

Comment by Patricia Hoffman on May 31, 2013 at 3:36pm

So sorry for the loss of your son, I lost my 3 year old granddaughter 7 weeks ago, and just buried my mom today..........I DONT KNOW WHAT GOD HAS IN STORE BUT IT BETTER BE GOOD, to take these 2 loves of my life, I am so angry, and in shock, and sad, and dont know if I can get through this... :(

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 14, 2013 at 3:33pm

me 2 feal liki im in a dream 2 b wen peple ask or hows yore dad ?? im lik he died lsy yr 3 rd of mrch som stnd to speak or som wark awy nd dont evn wont to speak to me in cas i get upset 

i wud lik it betr if pelpe tret evry lik a norml persn wen thy loze som 1 not crepin arond or warking away lik its som kind of deses 

iv had a lot mor loss in my lif frinds of th famly good peple it nver hrt any 1 nboz cuzens to th evil big c 

it tims i wish i cud get a tim mashin lik marty mclfly in bac to th futchr nd do thngs difrnt in my lif spend mor tim wit the people i lots in my lif e i do

Comment by Patricia Hoffman on May 10, 2013 at 4:12pm

Hi Connie, thank you so much for your post. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. You think these things only happen to OTHER people, thne you find no one is invincible. Its just been 4 weeks, and my grandson, Olivia's brother is going to sleep over here for the 1st time.........also tomorrow is my others sons daughters 1st birthday party.........I dont know how I am going to get through these events, I have cried nonstop for 4 weeks. I do alot of reading, and am in a grief group, and in counseling, and on meds.......I suffered from clinical depression, OCD & Panic disorder since I was 10, so I am feeling like this is going to put me over the edge......I am having some comfort knowing my precious Olivia, that is the HEAD angel up there leading all the small children, that was just her way, she is also the 1sy great grandchild to get to meet her 3 great grandparents..........I know she is always in my heart & soul and I talk to her all the time, until we are all together again. This is also a tragic loss for my son, & daughter in law, so its really hard...........HUGS

Comment by Connie K on May 10, 2013 at 3:50pm

Hi Patricia
 My name is Connie and I lost my only son in a tragic car accident 5 months ago. He was seventeen. I am so sorry for your horrible loss. I can relate to the overwhelming feeling of grief consuming your while being. I sometimes feel I am going to go instantly insane when that nightmare reality seeps in. It helps me to read meditations from others who are making their way through life with this loss. Being outside and hiking help me. I know it is hard and I just wanted to send you a cyber hug. Try to have faith that your grand daughter is still alive in spirit and is with you and help you get through things when you just don't know how you will. This is the only way I survive.Energy never dies it just changes form. And the love you shared with her will always be there and never change. It's what we have left. HUGS

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 8, 2013 at 3:26pm

im plesed u r geting hepl patrica never evr let any 1 to tell u to get ovr it iv bean told get ovr it its easy i no its not evry 1 on hear no its not 

i no a lot of us dnt hav suport gropses wear we liv only suport we hav is on in hear wear we try to suport eash othr

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