People say it gets easier to bear the loss of a loved one after a year or so......wow..I must have read that memo wrong because as it approaches the one year mark of my husbands sudden death..it is only getting harder.

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Thank You Shannon for your words of hope. I would like to continue to talk to you.

Dear Marlene,

I am heading for the six month mark of my husbands sudden death and I don't know how anyone who has been through this could put a timeline on our grief. I think the first few months I was still in shock. The holidays came and were gone and I went through them like walking through a dream. I went to stay with my daughter and all I could think was I want to go home even though I would be alone. I agree it seems to be getting harder. Maybe as time goes on the harsh reallity is with us. I am finding it harder to get motivated. Each day I think what he and I would be doing even if it would be nothing. I long a day that is not so painful but noone can tell me when that will come. My wish is for all of us here to find some peace in our hearts.

My thoughs are with you Barbara

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