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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by morgan on April 2, 2015 at 11:20am

ok i see from trying it my link dos not work.  Here is the poem with thanks to its author. 

                                      Ascension


And if I go, 
while you're still here... 
Know that I live on, 
vibrating to a different measure 
--behind a thin veil you cannot see through. 
You will not see me, 
so you must have faith. 
I wait for the time when we can soar together again, 
--both aware of each other. 
Until then, live your life to its fullest. 
And when you need me, 
Just whisper my name in your heart, 
...I will be there.

Ascension copyright ©1987, Colleen Corah Hitchcock

Comment by morgan on April 2, 2015 at 11:03am

George, The poem posted on Facebook was very touching.  Here is a link to a poem my best girlfriend from high school sent me when my husband died.  I've pretty much built a shrine around a framed copy of it.  Hoping it helps you or anyone else.   It is called "Ascension".

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/471329917225006813/

Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 2, 2015 at 10:38am

I can understand that. The words are beautiful but also very meaningful.

Comment by George H on April 2, 2015 at 9:22am
It is beautiful but so hard to read at times
Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 2, 2015 at 9:19am

George- That was beautiful! Thank you! I needed that more than I can say. My sweet husband left this world 12 weeks ago today. I feel so lost.

Comment by George H on April 2, 2015 at 8:31am
here is something that was posted on my wife Facebook memorial page just sent the link cuz its way too hard for me to read it and type it https://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=3416827972670&id=10292116...
Comment by George H on April 2, 2015 at 8:24am
haven't been able to do anything yet I live here in my chair with Mary's dog have no desire to venture out or try anything I know that's not good but its all I can do for now
Comment by Dianne M. on April 2, 2015 at 8:20am

I wake most mornings crying and feeling so alone. This morning it was storming and one of the dogs was afraid. Hubbs was so good with the dogs and I feel inadequate. I also woke with a headache probably from the fitful sleep and weird dreams and the crying prior to sleep. What a nightmare my life has become....I have things I must do today so I will venture out even though my heart is not in it but sitting here is so not good for me either. If I sit here too long I may never get up and out and I dont want that either..what a mess!

Comment by George H on April 2, 2015 at 8:15am
Trying to start another day not much sleep last night and then you wake up to the emtyness and you know what's coming
Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 2, 2015 at 5:43am

Hi Trina Mamoon.

I am very sorry for your loss and the pain that you are feeling. I hope you can find comfort in this group. If you ever need to talk we are here for you.

 

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