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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by Tildyc on April 11, 2015 at 3:46pm
Oh Sandy- how unbelievably painful. I don't even know what to say to you at this point. No words of comfort can cover what you're going through right now. Please do keep coming here and talking to us. We'll be here for you. It's the one thing that I – we- can do. I'll be thinking of you.
Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 11, 2015 at 3:20pm

I guess it's that way for all of us Dianne M. I think the only reason why I'm not in constant state of meltdown is because I have my daddy to take care of. He has taken a turn for the worse.  It looks like he may only have a week or two left if that much. When he passes, I'm going to need all of y'all. I haven't really had a chance to grieve for my husband yet. When daddy dies, I don't know what I'll do.

Comment by Dianne M. on April 11, 2015 at 1:23pm

I went to Bed Bath and Beyond to look for bedding and started to cry and had a meltdown in the car. Then got home and the neighbor asked how I was doing and I had a total meltdown in her arms.....I take two positive steps forward then a dozen back...My life is such a mess.....

Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 11, 2015 at 9:23am

I completely understand George. Mark and I never had much either. We didn't need much. We had each other. I'm trying hard to find some happy everyday but it really is hard. I miss my sweetheart.

Comment by George H on April 11, 2015 at 7:44am
Mary and I never had much and sometimes times were hard but that didn't matter because it was always Mary and George now its just me and deep dark pit were nothing matters anymore
Comment by Trina Mamoon on April 11, 2015 at 2:40am

It's so nice to hear stories about the strength and courage of our parents. I know I didn't give my mother enough credit for weathering the death of my father so gracefully. Now that I know how it feels to lose a spouse, I admire her courage and strength even more. In some ways people of our parents' generation had quiet strength and stoicism and they faced the hardships that life threw at them with dignity and courage. God bless their souls. I, too, miss talking to my parents about my irreparable loss. I wish I could talk to them and hear words of comfort from them. 

Comment by Tildyc on April 11, 2015 at 2:00am
Every day, every hour, every minute and every second... Closer.
Comment by Jon-Paul Ackerman on April 11, 2015 at 1:49am

We'll all be home together someday with no more pain, sickness, separation, or death. Hopefully sooner than later. 

Comment by Tildyc on April 11, 2015 at 1:45am
Can't imagine how difficult it must be for you John- Paul. My heart goes out to you and your children. I would like to say that it's all going to be okay – but we all know that's very shallow and presumptuous. Hold those lil ones close. And I hope you get some sleep.

And once again I want to thank you for creating this thread. For me- it's been a lifeline.
Comment by Jon-Paul Ackerman on April 11, 2015 at 1:33am

Never get sleep until I pass out unwillingly....

 

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