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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 17, 2015 at 6:10am

My dear friends, at 6am Georgia time, my daddy passed away. Please keep me and my family in your hearts over the next few days. I'm not even sure what to feel right now. Broken hearted

Comment by morgan on April 16, 2015 at 10:29pm

I wish I had more energy to respond but I can only say that:

Dianne-tonight you have nailed it….rotten sinking boat…...

Sandy- I will be thinking of you tonight and so will Mark. He is there in the room walking with your dad.

George- Sorry the grief group didn't help.  We're still here though so in a way this group seems to be the best for all of us.

JohnT- I cry wherever and whenever it hits me.  Given how long this emotion has been obscured from the public at large its time we bring the reality of the life cycle to its rightful place.  

Nancy- now that must have hit pretty hard…….

Fran-the mechanical stuff is one of those areas where I either give myself a lot of time for frustration and the predictable meltdown or I don't do it.  Most often it is the latter.

Trina-  your visit to the doc, his detachment and then your clean bill of health?  I  decided from day one I will not go see a doc until I know it is too late for myself.  I don't want anyone "fixing" me or learning I might still be healthy enough that I cant dream of my escape sooner. 

Comment by Dianne M. on April 16, 2015 at 10:03pm

m morgan I wish I could answer that too. Makes NO sense to me at all.

Comment by morgan on April 16, 2015 at 10:00pm

"till death do us part"  we have no idea what that means until it happens………I am feeling so lost…..so completely and utterly lost….Where are you?  Where did you go? Why cant I touch you?

help…….. why does this have to be so painful……...

Comment by Dianne M. on April 16, 2015 at 9:52pm

Sandy I am so sorry. We are here for you. ((()))

Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 16, 2015 at 9:48pm

Haven't been on here much today. The hospice nurse came this afternoon and said that my daddy probably won't make it through the night. He is in a coma now. I wish Mark was here. I sure could use his love and his strength.

Comment by Nancy on April 16, 2015 at 9:13pm
My 2 year old walked into our bonus ro tonight, where we had put my husband's hospital bed where he died, and he said "daddy... Bye bye daddy..." I was hanging a heavy picture on the wall and I about lost it.
Comment by Dianne M. on April 16, 2015 at 8:49pm

Yep we are all in the rotten sinking boat together.

Comment by George H on April 16, 2015 at 8:42pm
Tildyc you are sure not alone
Comment by Tildyc on April 16, 2015 at 8:40pm
Sorry about that George. I was hoping you get a little bit of a reprieve. But I do know how it feels to want to be back home to where you feel like they might be with you in some way?? I stopped going to my councilor. It was a waste of money after awhile. All I did was repeat myself over and over again. I think this is a place where I need to come for now. Nothing else seems to work. I'm still lonely sad and broken but, at least on here – I'm not completely alone.
 

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