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I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue
Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.
For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue
Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.
I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue
Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.
I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue
Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.
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My 3rd New year's Eve without my beloved Husband, been invited to numerous party but declined all, can't stand to watch everyone else kiss their spouse, It will be just me and my little dog Babie J ringing in the New Year. She is the only thing that makes this miserable life of mine, good. Her love.
So last night as I'm trying to sleep I start thinking about new year's. I couldn't sleep as I couldn't stop crying. Not that it meant anything to Gary and I as a couple but it is one of my favorite "holidays". I see it as a celebration of life, the current good and good to come. I told him new year's day of this year I didn't want to imagine my life without him in it. Now I've been living it. Yes, things happen. Yes, I have felt him in spirit. But this feels so fucked up. Life. Thou heartless bitch.
Hi Peggy, thanks, I agree that we need to remember the fun times, it is difficult for us to put those above the hurt we are all feeling, I was having a bad moment and I needed to grin a little, and as always he was the one that made, I had heaps of other silly pics but didn't think I should fill the whole page up with mike :) I am glad he has put a smile on a few other members faces has well, he always had the most addictive personality, he drew people in. I love him sooo much, I wish he could come home, so he could drive me nuts with his constant silliness
he was an amazing man, and yes all the time, he loved being the clown, he had everyone constantly laughing. i miss him so much.
I love the silliness.
Thank You Peggy and Bluebird, Peggy your puppies are cute too.
Hilary, how very true. You put it so well.
"How harshly we've all learned that what they all still have to cling to is frail, fragile, under some whimsical merciless unknowable timeline, and their whole underpinning foundation can be erased from them one day and them left gutted like we are. Let them enjoy their time of not knowing our horror."
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