Did your loved ones tell you they saw are did they talk to loved ones that passed b4 them?

My mom woke up one day and asked me where her dad went..I said mom what are you talking about. She said my dad was just here..where did he go. he saved me from dying. I didn't doubt she saw him but he had passed on Dec.09 I told her mom grandpa died hes gone..she started crying. she had forgotten he died. I felt so bad.

A week before she passed her sister karen who ended up passing 5 days b4 mom..came to visit my mom I walked in on my mom talking with someone but I couldn't see anyone in the room I asked her she said my sister Karen you know Karen right? Aunt Karen had been on life support for yrs. Her family  got called and said that she had no brain activity so they pulled the plug. I have no doubt in my mind she came to my mom to lead the way for her and so did my grandpa but my mom the fighter she was fought it till her body gave up for her :'(

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Permalink Reply by Laura Salefski on November 22, 2011 at 12:12am
Several years ago my Aunt Irene was dying from cancer. I went daily to see her. One day I was sitting at her bedside holding her hand. My aunt had not said anything in 3 or 4 days. Suddenly she opened her eyes and said I see you Helen, I'm coming. Helen was my mother who had died 20 years before.
Permalink Reply by Becky on November 29, 2011 at 3:43pm

It's very eerie that you posted this.

 

My grandmother passed Thanksgiving Day 2010. My mother had dreams about her for the entire year, but for the last two weeks of mom's life her recollection of the dreams became more like sharing a memory than telling someone about a movie, if that makes any sense. The dreams seemed to become real. She'd talk about going into a room and telling her mother about something that had happened during the day, getting her advice, and so on.

 

The Saturday before her death, my mom came out into the living room where I was sitting with my oldest daughter. She said, "Shannon, I just talked to Jeannie." My daughter said, "Grandma, Jeannie's been dead for a year. You're freaking me out!" My mom proceeded to tell us about how Jeannie came to her in a dream, described exactly how Shannon was lying on the couch, and wanted her to get in bed under the covers before she caught a chill. Then she said, "It was just so nice to get to talk to my mom again." and returned to bed.

 

That Monday morning, at 2:30AM according to the coroner, she had a massive and unexpected heart attack. When I spoke to my aunt - mom's sister - that afternoon, I told her about Saturday night's dream. She started crying and said, "It was a sign. Mom came for her."

 

I've been grappling with this since she passed. It's an odd mix of frightening and comforting.

Permalink Reply by Melissa Broome on November 29, 2011 at 6:28pm

Becky,

Before my mom passed about a week or so b4 she would open her eyes and look above us or around us..But she didn't talk..She just stared. I got a eerie feeling someone was there with us..But I wasn't scared, I know my mom was looking at people I could not see.

Permalink Reply by MIchael A Ballard on December 28, 2011 at 10:44pm
Around two weeks prior to my wife passing, she told me she had a dream of her sister who passed 2 years before that time. She told me the dream was real bloody.
Permalink Reply by Melissa Broome on December 29, 2011 at 5:50am

yea a week or so before my aunt passed my mom woke up screaming someone pick her up please, Age was freaked out by all the blood,I asked her who she said Karen you know Karen right...A week later aunt karen passed 5 days after that so did my mother.

Permalink Reply by Sandra Nichols on January 3, 2012 at 2:50pm

My mom saw her own mother, her brother, and an "unknown" person that we are assuming was a guardian angel. this was all during the week before she died. She also mentioned she now had a "secret friend". One time I was talking to her and she said, "Are you talking to me? I'm not alive".   Something was definately going on during that last week of her consciousness. 

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