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Permalink Reply by Angelina Serrano on January 28, 2015 at 10:43am

Thank you so much. I am so sorry about your husband.

Permalink Reply by JLL on January 28, 2015 at 8:51am

Angelina, I think it is completely normal that you'd be having nightmares! You suffered a traumatic and devastating loss. It is not your fault but I do understand, "survivors' guilt" and it is extremely tormenting as well...I am tremendously sorry for the loss of your boyfriend. I too listen to music to 'help'-it is pretty much the only thing that makes me feel other things than this....I really do wish you a good night sleep-if that is even possible..?! -Not sure if I will ever myself have a restful sleep again..I don't know if you are able to see a trauma/loss specialist (I can't afford it) but I hope you are able to; it can't hurt.

Permalink Reply by Stanley Ruiz on January 28, 2015 at 4:46pm

I AM A GAY GUY  AND I LOST MY OTHER HALF IN OCTOBER 2 ,2012 AND I STILL CRY AND YOU WILL HAVE TO GET IN CONTACT WITH THE OUR CREATOR  AND ASK  FOR HIS    HELP.  PLUS I BELIEVE THAT PRAYER HELPS. .I NNOW IT IS NOT EASY BUT WE CAN NEVER BRING THEM BACK  BUT WE MUST CONTINUE LIVING AND THEY WILL GUIDE US  ALONG THE FUTURE  HIGHWAYS OF LIFE.I KNOW IT IS DIFFICULT BUT WE CAN CAN DO IT .RIGHT? STANLEY

Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on January 28, 2015 at 4:50pm

im sorry angelina my dad died in a horbel hosptle ward iv nver bean able 2 vist any 1 in hosptle sisne i no in 2012 my mu had a potmnet it hell hol hosptle my dad died in all i did wz freze panic thn loved 1s god admit died in it i cudnt vist thm coz of horbl memry of my dad in lst ward he died on bitchy nasty nurse my dad loved balled songs my mum is not her any  shes not got mery probs 

but balerd songs set us off if its on radio or tv we cry 

i wz a sweet persnon now i dnt no person i am now