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Comment by Mike on May 31, 2017 at 3:04pm

Thank you, Amber, I do believe that the little things add up and lead at least me in a forward direction.  Don't get me wrong, I like the huge neon signs as well, but most of the time I have to settle for the subtle ones. I love your faith in your sister. I can tell you from my experience that they are there to guide, and it sounds like you are open to receive.  That is beautiful.  

Comment by Amber O on May 31, 2017 at 10:06am

Hello. 

I couldn't agree more with you on this. My 18 year old little sister passed away from cancer and we were very close, so as you can assume - it changed my life completely. When she passed, I drove myself crazy for the past 3 years, always looking for HUGE signs, always expecting - demanding more. I couldn't accept the little things, I would push them aside. I wanted more, I was being greedy. But this year, for her 3 year mark - it was different, its been different. I'm not starting to learn and accept the small signs and be at peace with what has happened. After when she passed, I never thought I would ever reach this far in this exhausting journey called Grief. I have to...no...I WILL believe and have faith that she is always with me and guiding me. {As your loved one is too}

Thank you for writing this, it makes me feel better knowing that other people feel and go through the same as I do on a daily struggle. Its hard feeling certain things and not being able to express, explain or get someone to understand where you are coming from. Thank you :)