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Comment by morgan on May 19, 2015 at 9:01pm

Oh Trina,  I am sooo sorry.  Your little one must have just brought everything to a very very raw place for you.  I cant imagine what it must be like to have to comfort a child while inside all you are doing is asking yourself why.  How did you do it?  You must be very strong to be able to be as consoling to others while your own heart is breaking.  I feel for you.  I hope it will eventually be ok for you and your son.  What a hard, hard thing to have to do……….

Comment by Valerie on May 19, 2015 at 8:44pm

Trina,

I'm so sorry for your loss, your pour baby. You are both suffering so much. I lost my husband, who was only 45 years old. I too watched him die in the ICU when a team of doctors tried to revive him. He was my life. We did not have any kids, that must be even harder in ways. You have to have the pain yourself and comfort your child.

I can tell you that I don't think we will ever stop missing them. I do think the crushing pain does get less as time goes on. And, grieving comes in waves. The first year they say, is all of the first without them. My husband dies on January 31st. It feels like yesterday in some ways and forever ago in some ways. I just miss him so much. We were best friends.

I'm so sorry for you loss and your kid's loss. I wish you some comfort and peace.
Valerie

Comment by Vicki jefferson on May 18, 2015 at 7:57pm

hi trina.   i have the same image's of my husband. he died march 1st. he was in the house when he had his heart attack. our grandchildren were here. they ask everyday for there pepaw. they are 7,5 and 4