Todd and I are friends, I just wanted to let you all know that Todd has been in a coma since November, which will explain his absence in this group.  The situation has been unbelievably heartbreaking for his children, family and friends.

Hello Todd,

The love you have for your wife comes through in all of your comments. I live in Montreal, and the grey of February is not helping me get through each day. I lost my beloved husband in June and I still feel that this is not real, like I am in a weird nightmare where I am lying to everyone that such a tragedy could happen. I have 3 amazing kids who are the reason I convince myself every morning that I have no choice but to go on. I have no family support whatsoever, and many "good" friends have disappeared completely. If you need someone to talk to, or have kid questions, you can contact me. Sending you strength and good thoughts.