Vikki,

It is so hard to stay abreast of all the posts but I wanted to say how sorry I am to hear of both your own losses and the news that one of the people who has travelled through this site is now in what sounds like a pretty serious medical condition.  Reading through Todd's profile I see he was battling what we all do when his wife passed but that he also had two children who are now having to deal with their father being unavailable.  I cannot imagine the heartache that this has caused for all family and friends. You didn't say why he was in a coma and it is my hope that whatever happened for those of us suffering from the grief of the loss of our beloved maybe in his state of absence of mind he is traveling with his wife.  

There is something very mystifying about how our very existence changes in one second.  There is simply no way to explain how surreal our lives are, even when we think we are living the dream.  

Thank you for letting us all know about Todd and though I of course do not know him I can only hope for him that his outcome is what he wants in his inner soul.  

Be blessed.

morgan