Todd Hardy
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I'm 46 Years old with two young daughters that are 12 and 8. My wife passed away on march 8 after a 2 year battle with inflammatory breast cancer. We were married for 21 years and started dating at 16 and 15.
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I am a mess. On the outside I try to be in control due to the fact that I have 2 young girls to care for. I promised my wife I would hold it together and take care of business. I have done this but inside I am a wreck. Everything changed when she passed. I don't know how to live without her. I have to make it look like I'm in control and strong for the girls but I'm a broken man inside. I don't know if i'll ever be right again. Karen would not have wanted this for me but I can't help it.

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My Life My Wife

My wife of 22 years passed away from inflammatory breast cancer on March 8/15.  We started dating when she was 15 and I was 16.  We have 2 beautiful daughters aged 12 and 8.  I am putting on a brave face on the outside but I am devastated mentally.  This is not the way life was suppose to go.  She took good care of herself and didn't smoke or drink.  It should have been me.  She battled this disease for 2 years and took numerous chemo radiation and surgical methods to fight it.  All for…

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Posted on April 22, 2015 at 9:51am — 2 Comments

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At 7:15pm on February 20, 2016, Vikki Holder said…

Todd and I are friends, I just wanted to let you all know that Todd has been in a coma since November, which will explain his absence in this group.  The situation has been unbelievably heartbreaking for his children, family and friends.

At 8:27am on February 9, 2016, Jane Lock said…

Hello Todd,

The love you have for your wife comes through in all of your comments. I live in Montreal, and the grey of February is not helping me get through each day. I lost my beloved husband in June and I still feel that this is not real, like I am in a weird nightmare where I am lying to everyone that such a tragedy could happen. I have 3 amazing kids who are the reason I convince myself every morning that I have no choice but to go on. I have no family support whatsoever, and many "good" friends have disappeared completely. If you need someone to talk to, or have kid questions, you can contact me. Sending you strength and good thoughts.

At 9:44am on May 26, 2015, Michael Thompson said…

Hi Todd, its 7 months for me now and its like it was yesterday.  I know how you feel, please get in touch.

Michael UK

 
 
 

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