Losing Someone to Cancer

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This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.
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  • Lost Dad to Lung Cancer

    On March 12 my last living hero passed away from lung cancer. He was always the rock that everyone leaned on. No matter what happened or how mad/disappointed in us he became he always told us he loved us unconditionally and everything would be ok. But its not ok. When me and my wife returned from…

    By Shane Hughes

    Apr 16, 2020

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  • I feel worse 2 and a half years on, than I ever did.

    Hi everybody, its been 2 and a half years now since I lost my lady wife to cancer, and I feel worse now than I ever did.I am constantly bursting into tears, particularly when I have to do shopping or something, because nothing matters anymore, im like a zombie, just going through the motions until…

    By Michael Thompson

    Feb 28, 2017

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  • Give yourself time to heal

    Hi,I am so sorry for your loss. it's only been 2 weeks. Allow yourself time to grieve. There is no time limit. I would encourage you to either join a grief group in your local area or get a grief counseling. This has helped me.Everyone grieves in their own way. No one can tell you when to stop. You…

    By Felicia Evans

    May 8, 2018

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  • Still lost and broken

    two Years ago I lost the love of my life since then I have been just existing I cry myself to sleep every night and I cry everyday I don’t how people can say in time things get better  nothing gets better I haven’t been on this site in quite awhile but this is the only place I can vent every one…

    By Pamela philipp

    Jan 4, 2018

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  • Stupid cancer commercials

    Why is it that theyhave to keep putting those Stupid commercials on TV every time I see them I turn the mute button on and cry for hours I'm sick of these commercials why can't they just stop putting them on TV don't people know how hurtful they are just hearing the word is enough I wish there was…

    By Pamela philipp

    Dec 26, 2016

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  • I Wish Someone Will Take Care of the Paperworks for Free

    I wish the world will leave me alone so I can continue helping myself feel better. My partner hated it when I felt anxious or sad. Even when he was sick, he didn't want me to be sad. I took a break from my contract work after my partner passed away from non small cell lung adenocarcinoma. I needed…

    By cin po

    Mar 19, 2017

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  • Losing another loved one to cancer

    I lost my uncle in 2009. It was hard to watch him go through it, especially when my dad and my aunt were both fighting cancer at the time too, but we all toughed it out. Then in 2011, my dad lost his fight and went to be with his brother in law. Worst pain I've ever felt in my whole life, and the…

    By Nichole Meer

    Jun 14, 2017

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  • Completely Lost

    I lost my best friend of 21 years on the 17th of April, he had metastasized lung cancer after fighting for 2 years and surviving odds 3 times. He did not just not wake up, he fought to the very last second. He was at the hospice house, he was fighting o get out of the bed till the very last second,…

    By Shirley Thompson

    May 20, 2016

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  • Nausea

    Hi, is anybody on this site suffering nausea since the demise of their spouse ?.My doctor told me that Grief causes nausea.  Why does it, that's what I want to know.?I aim to ask my doctor when I see him ?

    By Michael Thompson

    Nov 7, 2015

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  • I lost my 18 Year old Sister to Cancer on May 14, 2014. This day has changed me forever, I wasn't and still aren't the same person I was. When we first found out that she had cancer - we knew that time was very precious. At first it was rough on so many levels, she started losing hair - instead of…

    By Amber O

    Jul 26, 2016

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