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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by Linda Engberg on September 16, 2017 at 4:34pm

Hi Paul,

I just take one day at a time. Plus i have the love of a shih tzu I rescued Babie J.  time, I adopted a cute little shih tzu that keeps me going. She is better than most people I know.

Comment by Paul on September 16, 2017 at 4:17pm
Linda,
My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your husband. By reading your comments I can truly feel how close and special your relationship was with him. It was the same with my wife and I. Four years seems like an eternity to me now. How do you cope?
Comment by Linda Engberg on September 16, 2017 at 3:02pm

Hi Paul,

It has 4 years since the loss of my beloved Husband of cancer. I can't wait to get off this miserable planet and join in. 

Comment by Paul on September 15, 2017 at 3:12pm
Kim,
I could have posted your comment just about word for word. I am 5 1/2 months into this hell and cannot foresee myself lasting years in this mindset. As far as I'm concerned, I have one good day left, the day I'm finally off of this miserable planet.
Comment by Nancy on September 12, 2017 at 9:31am
Kim:I'm in same boat.4 months. My daughter and grandson and I care for my husband and also watched him pass. He was very confused and that was a mixed blessing. He had no idea he was dying but we couldn't have good talks either. As the shock wears off I too feel reality is setting in and I am struggling more. It was a whirlwind as he only lived 7 months after diagnosis and half that time was in hospital. God Bless you.
Comment by Bruce Armstrong on September 12, 2017 at 9:27am

Hi Kim Not quite 3 mon's for me since I lost my wife only we know the hurt- things change so lonely in the evenings pace the floors -learn to say no if something does not feel right try to find one thing you like to do I go to cem. every day and get me a icecream on way home-I cry a lot hope time will heal both of us-I feel she would want me to live and be part of the family again someday-Wishing all a little better day today

Comment by Linda Engberg on September 7, 2017 at 3:44pm

Helen,

It has 4 years since I lost my Husband to cancer, not a day goes by that I don't think of him. I live for he day I will join him.

Comment by Helen Maez on September 7, 2017 at 2:37pm

hello everyone,

I haven't been here for a few days and I felt I needed to say a few things on my mind. which is  it seems  every single day, second, minute, and now months is a living hell, I try to keep myself busy, but their will some moments that I will catch myself and just brust out crying thinking of my partner. and how much I miss her.   

Comment by Linda Engberg on September 7, 2017 at 1:07pm

Mel,

I can't agree with you more, it has been 4 years since I lost my Husband Julian, each day is a living hell, the faster I join him the better I will be. 

Comment by Bruce Armstrong on September 7, 2017 at 9:03am

Mel.It has been just a little over 2 mon's and I have trouble thinking that I have this to look forward for years-My wife loved me and kids so I want to help kids in the future if I can need to get better myself so I can be dad and grandpa-She had so much pain in the end but stayed strong never spilling her pain on me-lost her in my arms cuddled close-I do fair during day but can not bear the evenings-lonely house-I'am looking for a good day and you too- nobody understands that lose

 

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