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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by Nancy on February 4, 2018 at 11:37am

Surreal. Like a bad dream you can't believe is true..

Comment by L.O on February 4, 2018 at 11:18am

Same here, being in my house isn't the same even with little ones running about. Inside im screaming at those who ask if 'im OK' as the true answer is no I'll never be OK without my partner. He was and still is my everything i have to force myself out of bed in the mornings and do things as 'normal

Comment by Marjorie Willcox on February 4, 2018 at 11:16am

Exactly!

Comment by bluebird on February 4, 2018 at 11:04am

Me too. This is not life, without him. It is forced, prolonged punishment.

Comment by Marjorie Willcox on February 4, 2018 at 10:04am

I feel just the same way

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 4, 2018 at 6:16am

Susan,

Since my beloved Husband Julian died I no longer feel a part of anything.

I don't want a normal life, I want to be with him.

Comment by Susan K on January 30, 2018 at 7:30am

Linda

That is exactly how I feel in my house "safe" and "close to Chuck", but I have no choice, I have to downsize. It's the practical choice. But it is tough. I have realized as each day goes by that I will never get used to my new normal (life without Chuck) but will have rejoin society at some point. Thank you for your words they gave me peace...Susan

Comment by Linda Engberg on January 30, 2018 at 6:14am

Susan,

Don't let your friends and family tell you what you should be doing, do what you feel is the best thing for yourself. I still rent a home in Florida where my Husband took his last breath, I can't find it in myself to move back to Michigan nearer to family, this was the last place I lived with Julian and I feel safe here and that he is close by. After 5 years without him, I still have a hard time going on without him by m side, but I force myself to join in society. It does get better each year

but I will always be the same Linda and do not want to start over.  

Comment by Nancy on January 29, 2018 at 11:01pm

Hope the trip helps for awhile.

Comment by W0lfman on January 29, 2018 at 10:57pm

 UUUGGG Just had to pay the funeral expenses off today has not been a good day but i have decided i need to get out of this house for a while so im going out of state to see a long time best friend. wish me luck lol.

 

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