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Comment by Linda Engberg on October 19, 2018 at 7:56am

Bluebird, Trina & Alexis,

Thanks for your thoughts. Life will never be the same again.

I am so glad to have such wonderful friends on this forum.

God Bless You All.

Comment by ALEXIS on October 18, 2018 at 10:13pm

Linda and Bluebird I have been feeling the same way.  At work I am getting in all sorts of holiday items and it is hard for me to look at it or think of the holidays.  This will be my first without my husband.  I'm not quite sure how to do this as some days I still forget that he is gone and then I wake up.  I just keep putting one foot in front of the other because I don't know how to do anything else but it somehow just seems wrong.  Sometimes I just want to stop doing anything but if I do, I'm afraid that I will never get started again.  

Hugs to you both

Comment by Trina Mamoon on October 18, 2018 at 6:56pm

Alas, time DOES NOT heal all wounds. Perhaps it heals most wounds, but not the loss of one's soulmate, the love of their life. Those people who say this, don't know any better. Either they don't understand what a soulmate is, or they never experienced the death of their precious spouse/partner.

Hugs to you, Linda and bluebird.

Comment by Trina Mamoon on October 18, 2018 at 6:52pm

Comment by bluebird on October 18, 2018 at 5:51pm

I understand, Linda. It's the same for me. ((((Hugs))))

Comment by Linda Engberg on October 18, 2018 at 4:19pm

Here I am at a another Holiday Season coming up. All it is, is my six Christmas without my beloved Husband. I was always told time will make things better, I guess these people never knew what a true soulmate is. I feel the same way I did six years ago and it will never get better for me. All I do is hope that I will never awaken again and join him. Most people just don't get it.

Comment by Linda Engberg on October 18, 2018 at 4:19pm

Here I am at a another Holiday Season coming up. All it is, is my six Christmas without my beloved Husband. I was always told time will make things better, I guess these people never knew what a true soulmate is. I feel the same way I did six years ago and it will never get better for me. All I do is hope that I will never awaken again and join him. Most people just don't get it.

Comment by Linda Engberg on September 27, 2018 at 3:05pm

Hi Alexis,

Loved reading her book, after 5 years found this book more down to earth that the grief never goes away

Comment by ALEXIS on September 27, 2018 at 12:05pm

Linda,
I am currently reading that book and am finding it to be helpful. I feel like I can identify with the author and appreciate the fact that she acknowledges that this sucks.
Alexis

Comment by Linda Engberg on September 27, 2018 at 7:33am

Hello Everyone,

I just finished the book "It's OK that your're not OK by Megan Devine. It really helped me to realize that this forum is the only place I find where I can share my grief with others and not be criticized. I am so thankful for everyone of you.

God Bless Everyone One of You.

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