Hi there

I'm new to this group. I lost the one man who truly love me. He was killed heading home after dropping me off from a party. he was only a minute to 2 minutes away from home. He was kill by a car that was drag racing in a residential area. The car they kill him was going 120 to 150km in a 40km zone. then went right through a stop sign and hit my boyfriend. His car went off the ground, through a fence and into someone's window. the idiots didn't even try to brake they car. I'm in so much pain. So much. How can anyone do that and kill a man? Please if someone can help me that be wonderful to understanding why.

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Permalink Reply by Kisha Bean on February 3, 2010 at 12:07am
OK..GREAT!! do you have messenger of any kind
Permalink Reply by Kisha Bean on February 3, 2010 at 12:09am
wow...I am so sorry!!!
Permalink Reply by Christina Davis on February 15, 2010 at 9:55pm
I am sorry for your loss. I too lost the only man i have every deep down truely loved to a car wreck. He died on January 1st 2008. I know how hard it is to wake up every morning and not want to get out of bed because the reality of never seeing that man again is too hard to face, or crying yourself to sleep because you wish his arms were wrapped around you. I know and have felt all of those emotions. And I cant lie and tell you that one day your going to wake up and its going to be better. But I can tell you that as you learn to deal with the grief and learning to live your life the way he would have wanted you to, the days will get a little brighter. It takes time, lots of alone time, healing time, thinking time, just plain ME time. Hell its been over 2 years and there isnt a day that goes by that I dont think about Aaron and wish he was still here. But its easier to deal with now that I see that life HAS to go on. You cant tell the sun not to rise and the stars to go away. Each day you will learn to grow without him, just keep his memory and the love you shared close to your heart and always remind your children how much daddy loved them!! Best of luck to you and your children in this tragic time.

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