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Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on July 11, 2011 at 1:26pm

its so hard for us

 

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on July 11, 2011 at 1:26pm

you know exactly how I feel mercy....I did a "normal" thing today, went to a movie, i couldnt make it through the whole thing, but I am so glad I did something normal....I dont remember my mom sick, thank god....but she was as your mom was hun, and no we dont want that vision....she is happy honey....she is completely at peace now, remember that, even though its hard for us....you have to find the peace inside....i have peace, but miss her so bad, i know she is resting in heavenly peace now.....

Comment by mercy on July 11, 2011 at 11:10am

Rachel, I hear you. I'm dying inside, just longing for mom. I've been having horrible dreams of mom looking so sick and emaciated. This makes me so sad. I want to see her happy and rested. We can only pray for peace. I miss her terribly, I know I will never experience real peace until I see her again.

Comment by Nadine Fox on July 11, 2011 at 8:00am

THIS PAst weekend i joined my daughter and granddaughter in her 1st horse show. she's 5 yrs old. riding english. Mom rode English and played Polo at one point in her life, although I dont' recall ever seeing Mom ride. My granddaughter even wore the hat that Mom had worn at some point. I had found it after her death, she had never shown it to us, and I gave to it my granddaughter for her birthday. It was hard to see that as I know Mom would have enjoyed watching her in her 3 classes and seeing her get her ribbons. (sat she placed 7 in the 3 classes and sun she placed 2,2,& a 3rd) the little one was so proud of her different colored ribbons and had a great time!!even though I never saw Mom riding I know how much she had enjoyed it, and the pictures of her say it all!!

 

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on July 10, 2011 at 8:47pm

I miss my mom SOOO bad....I thought of her today, a little while ago....i wish she were still here....nothing can replace her....nothing....she is a part of me....i love you mom....always!!!!  and forever....i try not to think about her cause i just get so upset...we were so close....so close

Comment by Anthony Cosenza on July 6, 2011 at 1:58am

Hey Cindy, I am aware that stress is not going away any time soon and I've tried the journal idea but after writing down my emotional's I feel better until the next time because I end up reading my thoughts and I become more and more upset with my mother being away. I do agree that expressing my feelings to others does help. I was actually telling my sister today about these feelings and she was having the same thoughts and we both helped each other. My best advice to anyone dealing with pain with your loss is to tell someone your thoughts/feelings. It is hard and you may even cry but it will start to heal the pain sooner.

Comment by Cindy Trepanier on July 5, 2011 at 9:52pm

Anthony.  I am so sorry for your loss.  In one of the bereavement group meetings I attended the facilitator talked about the fact that we are all going to be stressed and emotional.  That we need to take a step back and do something for ourselves and that we need to make sure that we are taking care of ourselves, we can't take care of others if we are not helping ourselves.  All I can do is tell you to stay strong and that you need to take time for yourself.  Talking to people on this will help you as well.  I also started a private journal to work through some of my anger and frustration.  It has helped just expressing how I feel even though I am the only one that will read what I write.  It helps keep me sane.  Hope that helps.

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on July 4, 2011 at 8:37pm

im so sorry Anthony, my prayers go with you....that is horrible....I lost my mom in December, but by cancer, I guess no way is pleasant....I'm so very sorry....stay strong

Comment by Anthony Cosenza on July 4, 2011 at 7:19pm

Hey everyone, My name is Anthony. I lost my mom...my mom was taken from me last January. She was murdered and now I am taking care of my 2 younger sisters. Thankfully they're over 18 but they still need help from me. I love them and love my mom even more. It is very difficult to deal with sometimes especially when family disagreements come about and what not. My mom was my rock,when I needed advice she was always there and now when I get stressed I don't have anyone else to talk to. Even though I'm still young (23 yrs. old) and very mature, I feel like I have to always act like an older male because of certain responsibilities that I have. Basically I was wonder what should I do when I become stressed or emotional? I'm hoping someone here can give me some really good advice. Thanks for reading-Anthony

Comment by mercy on July 4, 2011 at 2:57pm

Thanks Rachel; I'm so happy to see you back. My DSL was acting up for two days and I couldn't respond to your messages. I pray that God give you strength to get through today. I spoke to my brother and sister and they are sounding so strong today. I just started thinking what my mom wants for me. It would make her so proud if I can be the strong resiliant woman she raised me to be. I'm working hard towards that. Its very difficult but I'll try my best just for mom. I know she would never want her memories to be ruined by the pain her death has caused us. Rachel, I really appreciate your support and friendship. I wish I could reach out and give you a big hug.

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