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Comment by MSB on March 12, 2012 at 11:20pm

I agree Elaine. Sometimes I go out and look around and i can't believe how everything is the same for everybody else out there. Holidays keep coming, sun keeps shining. But for me, nothing is the same.The only thing that stays the same is my love for my mother. It doesn't seem to get any easier. I get a good day but then I get many bad ones.

 

Comment by Sue Waxman on March 11, 2012 at 9:55am

I get by each day by controlling the thoughts I allow inside my mind. I try NOT to let the sad/bad/depressing thoughts in. I focus on doing good while I am still on this earth. It isn't about me. I will be greatful to be with my mother, grandmothers and all my family and friends who have already transitioned to the place we call heaven. Now is the time we have to look at what we are doing with our lives and ask ourselves some important questions. My mother passed on because she was ready. This I know be be absolutely true. She had fulfilled what she was put here to do. If you are still here...ask yourself why?

 

Comment by Sue Waxman on March 11, 2012 at 9:47am

We will be with them again.

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on March 8, 2012 at 9:06pm

you sound just like me mercy, just like me, exactly

Comment by mercy on March 7, 2012 at 4:54pm

Marlene; I feel the same way. Its like its finally hitting me, that I'll not see mom again. In the beginning I was angry at God, then I was in denial, happy that she was out of pain; but the grief had not really set in until now. I've never known this kind of pain.... Life as I knew it has been forever altered.

Comment by Tammy Dresslar on March 7, 2012 at 3:54pm

Barbara ,

Thanks for your comments. I am actually in AA now it will be three weeks on monday. I can relate to not being able to talk to your siblings about it. I feel selfish, but I can't deal with their grief, and mine. I already had to make all the decisions per her request, and not all of them agree.

Comment by MSB on March 7, 2012 at 3:48pm

It seems to be getting harder each day to accept that my mom is gone. I feel more depressed each day. I don't think it will ever get easier. I feel for each of us on this board and i am glad that there is a place to write about how we really feel.

Comment by mercy on March 6, 2012 at 11:46am

Hi Bob, I've responded to your comments and sent you a message or two, I always find comfort in what you have to say especially the time you reminded us that every passing day brings us closer to being with our moms.

Comment by mercy on March 6, 2012 at 11:45am

Hi Tammy, am in Nashville; so I'll definitely keep that number handy. This journey is a long and tough one. From when I was old enough to understand death, I always thought about and dreaded losing my mom. It was a constant preoccupation; am a few years from forty,I didn't know I would have her this long, but neither was I ready to say goodbye. My sorrow knows no bounds, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't wish I was with her on the other side..

Comment by anna l. on March 6, 2012 at 3:00am

Bob, I just went to your page and under your profile where it asks about your loss there are a list of comments from others.  Maybe you didnt know they were there.  Hope that helps you some to feel less alone here.

 

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