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Comment by michael sandoval on May 31, 2013 at 10:17am

Dear Kristin and Muuna,

My heart goes out to you, my deepest condolences to you both and to everyone.

God Bless Everyone

Comment by Maddy on May 31, 2013 at 9:42am

Hi Muuna,

There are no words that I can say that will fill the void your mother has left. Only, I hope you know that everyone here understands what you are going through in some way or another, and that this is a safe place to express yourself.
My own mother passed away March 15th of this year, 5 months into my first pregnancy. It has been the hardest time of my life ever. Thankfully, I have found a lot of comfort on here and met some wonderful people who can sympathize and empathize with how I feel.

So allow me to do so a little for you. ... You mentioned feeling surrounded by men, well I know what you mean! I am married to a wonderful man but he's still not able to replace my mother. I have a wonderful father and two caring younger brothers, but they are all men. On top of that, I am pregnant with a boy. I have really been struggling with feeling "surrounded" by men! With that in mind, I have made a conscious effort to spend more time with my girlfriends and female cousins lately. Nothing fancy, just spending time chatting. I found it has really helped. Try it maybe.

I hope you find peace in the small things.

Maddy

Comment by Kristin Renee on May 30, 2013 at 11:59pm

Empathy was one of the precious gifts my mother bestowed upon me. She was the most kind and generous person I'll ever know. I just want to honor her by being the best person I can be.

I've been writing her letters so I can keep talking to her. Maybe that might help you as well. I'm still finding my way too but I'll be here if ever you need. *hugs*

Comment by Muuna on May 30, 2013 at 11:44pm

Thank you for your kind words Kristin. There is comfort in knowing I'm not truly alone.

Comment by Kristin Renee on May 30, 2013 at 11:39pm

I wish I could offer you more comfort but I know the only person who could truly console you is your Mom because I feel the same way as I know most everyone here likely does. You are not alone here.

Comment by Muuna on May 30, 2013 at 11:29pm

Precisely Kristin, I've been left with "the boys", my dad and younger brother and I don't know if its a male thing, but they don't talk much about things so I feel that much more alone. She was the first person I would see when I woke up because she'd come to my room before leaving for work wake me up to see how she looks. We would do our hair together, do the groceries together and now I'm doing everything alone. We live in the same house so all the memories are present and in your face. I hate leaving the house because when I return I have to readjust. All the big decisions in my life that she won't be there for, I just let out one long sad sigh...

Comment by Kristin Renee on May 30, 2013 at 11:05pm

I know how you feel, Muuna. Anything that was new or good in my life, I'd always want to share with my Mom. Now that she's not here I feel like I'll never be whole or happy again. The world is a cold, dark, and uncertain place without her here.

Comment by Muuna on May 30, 2013 at 10:59pm

won't be the same.

Comment by Muuna on May 30, 2013 at 10:58pm

Thank you Kristin, its awful... I'm graduating this year and she won't be there. I'm really crushed. I don't think I even want to turn to anyone else, it just

Comment by Muuna on May 30, 2013 at 10:54pm

Pardon my manners, I needed to offload so badly that I did not say hello.

Hello everyone...

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