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Comment by Hannah McMurphy on June 21, 2013 at 8:39am

Kimberly and Diana,we all know just how that grown adult "child"feels,we all want our Mommy!It has been just over a month since I lost the most important person in my life,and I hope the cards and notes from her friends,with all the kind words and prayers will stop soon.I know they mean well but,just like you said it just kinda puts you back to the start of the pain and loss.I know that this pain will never go away,I just wonder if I will ever be able to feel anything but,this empty aching,hole in my heart?

Comment by Kimberly Hamilton on June 21, 2013 at 3:34am

Diana,

I am so sorry for your loss. We all know what you are going through and know how hard it is to deal with it.

I also know how hard it is when people who have not heard offer sympathies. It's like her dying all over again. Sometimes you just want to say "Don't talk to me about this!! I don't want to go through this again!!" But we smile and are polite and say thank you and even help them find comfort. Then go home and cry for hours. Sometimes I think those days after the funeral were worse; going back to work, going out shopping and knowing I didn't have to shop for Christmas gifts for her. She was always so hard to shop for.

I would give anything to have that problem again. I have said before I feel so stupid acting like a child wanting her "Mommy". No one out there thinks I am "special" anymore.

Comment by Natalie on June 20, 2013 at 11:11pm

Diana, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Comment by Natalie on June 20, 2013 at 11:05pm

Thank you, Karen. Looking at it that way does bring a measure of healing.

Comment by Muuna on June 20, 2013 at 2:24pm

Diana Young, I'm so sorry about your loss. This is an incredibly hard time and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Maddy, Cindy C thank you for your kind words.

To everyone, old and new, I read in a previous comment that we are a family and I completely agree. From different parts of the world, different ages we share a common loss so we truly are each others best support and source of comfort. Given a chance our mums would tell us to be happy about the time we had together with them and the fact that they will never truly leave us, they are in our hearts, our values, even our physical features. they'd say that they are fine where they have gone. You are all in my prayers and hopes.

Comment by Helder Silva on June 20, 2013 at 2:21pm

Diana,

I'm so sorry you lost your mom. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Sue,

Since my mom has passed I'm very sensitive and mean/rude people seem to stand out. It's a feeling of vulnerability when your greatest friend and protector who could love you no matter what has left. You feel alone and helpless and open to attack by those that seem to have no empathy. I understand and I pray it gets better for both of us.

H

Comment by Melisa C on June 20, 2013 at 2:14pm

I'm so sorry, Diana.

Comment by michael sandoval on June 20, 2013 at 1:57pm

Dear Diana,

My Deepest Condolences.

God Bless,

Mike

Comment by Martha on June 20, 2013 at 1:53pm

I am very sorry Diana Young that your Mom passed. Our prayers are with you.

Comment by Karen on June 20, 2013 at 1:30pm

So sorry to hear that Diana Young. I am thinking of you in this very difficult time.

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