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Comment by Rebecca on January 27, 2016 at 9:03pm

I'm not even a month in and the pain is so terrible I feel like I'm hallucinating... How can someone be gone that has been in our life as long as we have been alive? This pain has been immeasurable and so painful sometimes I fear it will never end and then I fear it will end and I will forget. The bottom drops out of your life and everything feels surreal. Indeed to grieve and feel sad though, I think this is a process and for some reason it is a part of life. I hate it!

Comment by charity wolf on January 27, 2016 at 8:58pm

I think it's insane to think we ever stop missing our Mamas or feeling sad. I think grief is a life long process that changes with healing and time, but always present. I am a year in and cannot imagine ever feeling resolved! My Mama brought me into this life and that bond is forever etched in my heart....sniff...to all you beautiful grieving folks, I send love and gentleness. Just let your heart to the navigating...hugs

Comment by Karen Cowe on January 27, 2016 at 7:53pm

Does anyone ever really stop feeling the pain of loosing there Mother? They say that time heals all wounds. I beg to disagree with that. It's been 15 years since I lost my Mom/ Best Friend and it still hurts as if it we're just yesterday .

Comment by Denise Taylor on January 27, 2016 at 1:18pm

I believe I am just scared to grieve for my mom ( because of all the horror stories about grieving) as I am of being without my mom for the rest of my life. Help???????

Comment by charity wolf on January 22, 2016 at 3:51pm

Martha, your truth really helps me right now. This month was our one year since my Mama flew away. It has been a very hard month. I have this underlying sorrow about me, always. Somehow I thought one year would be less painful. Although I have gained strength, the pain is ever present. I almost feel worse...like now the vale has completely lifted and I am starting my life without Mama, now. Anyways thank you for sharing your journey...sorry for your tremendous loss. Love you all of you here...hugs

Comment by Martha on January 19, 2016 at 2:13pm

I am so sorry for you losing your Moms. It will be four years on April 11th that my went as she used to say "on her trip". The first years were a blur. Unbearable pain. But, although I miss her everyday I tell you I have accepted that I have to wait until God calls meantime try to conduct myself in the best manner possible for her sake.

A wise man told me "Mom is at peace, no more pain, no more suffering except for the one she sees us going through."

Have comfort in knowing our mothers are with us in the non-physical form, and they listen to our words and our thoughts.

I thought I was not going to make it through this, but I did. If I was able to, you could too. My mother was and is everything to me.

As the years go by, and they will come back to this group and offer comfort to those that need it. Mom will be proud.

Have faith, life is eternal.

Comment by Diane on January 18, 2016 at 7:04pm

I lost my mom December 17 2015. She had afib which cause a massive stroke she also had kidney problems, she lived for 24 hours after the stroke. I miss her so much. My heart hurts so bad. My mom and I were very close, I walk around the house just trying to find something she touched so I can hold on to it tears come and I cry so hard I make myself sick I lost 20 pounds since she died. I would love to tell her one more time how much I love her. My best friend left I know she's with the lord which makes me at ease.

Comment by Rebecca on January 17, 2016 at 7:57pm

I lost my mom on January 8th 2016 from liver cancer. I still can't breathe when I think about her...I miss her so much and the pain I feel is all too real and sometimes it feels like a fire is spreading through my body and the pain is too much to take. I am having problems sleeping and when I'm awake, I don't feel like I'm even really here. I'm an only child and my dad is having a rough time with this and it is so hard for both of us to be sad, so I have to be strong for him. It is all just too much. This group gives me some peace knowing so many people are going through a similar situation.

Comment by Lily Lily Rose on January 16, 2016 at 8:32am

Lost my Mom a year ago- very suddenly. I grieve for her and for the mother I never could have. She abused me horribly and I barely spoke to her most of my early adulthood. I learned to forgive and we were just beginning our first ever relationship. Now she is gone. Does she hear me tell her that I love her? I never could in life. Not sure this pain can end.

Comment by charity wolf on January 5, 2016 at 10:31am

Hi everyone...My Mama's one year flight day is in a week. I have healed so much this past year so for that I am grateful. Today I feel such sorrow. My fear of being alone has tripled since my Mama flew. She was my unconditional companion and we did a lot together, always. I find myself pretty isolated these days and that hurts. My spiritual beliefs allow me to connect with her spirit and grow our relationship, in love. Mama never died she just left her body. Anyways, I am trying to be ok...guess I just needed to reach out and say that. sending you all my love and support. hugs

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