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Comment by Theresa on July 12, 2016 at 6:36pm

I agree mine is the number 5, my dad died on 12/14, my mom on 12/19 and my grandmother on 12/24, 5 days in between each, the number 555 keeps showing up at different times oddly enough

Comment by Lisa Green on July 12, 2016 at 8:03am

Nancy,

i don't think that is so crazy. I think my mom is doing the same thing to me with hearts. Mom has been gone since Feb. 24th this year and a few months ago, I noticed there was a heart shaped light shining on my hallway floor. I looked around everywhere for a window or light that might be causing it but there was nothing. It was coming from a candle warmer that I have plugged in my hallway but the warmer ONLY has holes in it that would shine circle lights on the floor if anything but it was a heart and its still there. Its been there all this time. I never noticed it before then. A few days ago, my sister sent me a picture of a heart shaped light on her wall and again it was coming from her candle warmer but there were no heart shaped cut outs in her warmer either. Hers only has line shaped cut outs in it. I believe these things do happen from the spirits of our loved ones but often times they go unnoticed. Many people will miss the signs that are all around them. I also talk with God about giving my Mom hugs and I Love You's from me to her. 

Comment by Leila on July 7, 2016 at 6:10pm

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This is my second post today, and this one is going to sound a little crazy. I think my mom is trying to stay in touch with me through numbers. Let me start by saying this NEVER happened to me before my mom passed. Ever since she passed I keep seeing repetitive numbers on the clock, and I mean several times a day even if I wake in the middle of the night. I see the numbers 11:11. 12:12, 12:34 1:11, 2:22, 3:33, and 4:44 the most. I mentioned it to my son this week and sure enough the time on the oven clock was 12:34. It happened again when we looked at it the next day and that time he took a photo of it. I don't plan to look at the clock at certain times. It just keeps happening.

Comment by Leila on July 7, 2016 at 6:02pm

I agree with Gregory. We find ways to cope, but it will always be difficult not to have our moms in our daily life. It's been 16 months since my mom passed. I think about her every day. I pray each night for the Lord to give her hugs and kisses from me and tell her how much I love her. I am married to a wonderful man who I love spending time with. We are empty nesters but we spend as much time as we can with our grown children. I keep busy with friends and volunteer work. I have so much to be thankful for, (and I am thankful) but I still carry a sense of loss and emptiness where my mom should be.

Comment by Lisa Green on July 7, 2016 at 9:47am

Hi Julie,

I feel your pain every day. We all do. That is why we are here on this site. My mom and I talked everyday and we did a lot of things together and most of all we supported each other every day always. Because of that support and unconditional love I received from my mom, I know I have the strength to bare this incredible pain and loss and if you were that close to your mom, I know you do too. Although it will never feel like you do because we just want them back and our life to go back to that time when they were here with us. It's very hard to fathom that life goes on and it has even made me mad many times when I see life just continuing on without my beautiful momma being here. But I do know that Mom taught me everything she had to teach and loved me in every way she possibly could and that is why I know I can survive this as hard as it is. She instilled that in me. Julie, search for your mom's advice. Its still there inside of you. I also find it a little easier to only focus on how to get through today only. TODAY! If I think about the week, the year, my life it's too overwhelming. So I focus on only the things I need to do to be ok TODAY! I hope something I've said helps you in some way. 

Comment by Theresa on July 6, 2016 at 6:24pm

You are not alone.

Comment by Theresa on July 6, 2016 at 6:23pm

Julie, you have to have faith..........

I used to call my mom ten times a day also, she was my world, and now there is a big void in it.

You are not alone, read all the posts from everyone, we all lost our moms and we all are in pain.

 

Comment by Lisa Green on July 6, 2016 at 10:51am

Mom has been gone a little more than 4 months. I know in my heart I will always miss her. Some days all I can do is cry. Other days I think about something she did or said and I smile or laugh out loud. Doing my best to move forward but never a day when I don't feel completely alone and isolated, even though I work everyday and have family around me every day. It just feels like there's no one to reach out to and explain how I feel because the only ones who can truly understand are those who also have lost their mothers. It continues to change me. I don't get too excited over things anymore and I find that I'm more tolerant of my loved ones. I miss her all the time. 

Comment by Theresa on July 6, 2016 at 5:34am

We all feel the same, it will be 7 months this month for me, I miss her so much, but I just keep trying to live my life like she told me, her and I were talking one day a couple of months before she passed as we were leaving the cemetery visiting our deceased loved ones, and  I said mom time just keeps going on even after someone we love passes and she said, yes it does, she told me "I lived my life you'll have to live yours"........I can't get that out of my mind...

Comment by Jane on July 5, 2016 at 9:44pm

So sorry Joanna.  It's so hard.  I miss my Mom so much too.  I cry every day :(

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