Shelly
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  • Floydada, TX
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Single mom of 3 children
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lost my 12 yr old daughter while riding her bike she was struck by a truck died on impact
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A Pair of Shoes

"A Pair of Shoes"



I am wearing a pair of shoes.

They are ugly shoes.

Uncomfortable shoes.

I hate my shoes.

Each day I wear them, and each day I wish I had another pair.

Some days my shoes hurt so bad that I do not think I can take another

step.

Yet, I continue to wear them.

I get funny looks wearing these shoes.

They are looks of sympathy.

I can tell in others eyes that they are glad they are my shoes and

not theirs.

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Posted on May 25, 2010 at 9:11pm — 2 Comments

Pretty white dress!

I walk in this cold room where My daughter is layin on this steel table, From far away it looks as if she is sleeping. I get closer to her and she looks so peaceful so still so beautiful but yet so lifeless! My kids including myself sleep with our eyes open..on this occassion hers are tighly shut..I stand beside her picking the grass out of her HAIR, and telling her how much I love her! She had braids in her hair I took them down and combed her hair ever so gently! Put a Tiara in her hair,…

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Posted on April 15, 2010 at 9:00am — 2 Comments

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At 7:58pm on November 25, 2013, Karen R. said…

Hello Shelly, I was just reading through some of the member's profile and I came across yours and saw your beautiful daughter. What you posted about the "THE PRETTY WHITE DRESS" was so profound. I am so sorry, so sorry for us all who have to endure this pain. My heart hurts with yours, I'm sorry that I have no comforting words to offer but I wanted to extend my condolences. I have often said that in a "PERFECT" world, no one would ever come to know such pain, no one would suffer the loss of their child, there would be no death or pain of any sort. Unfortunately, we don't live in such a world. The only thing that helps is having the support from others who unfortunately no what I'm feeling or have a pretty good idea. She will always be your daughter and you will always be her mom....that will NEVER change or be diminished. She had a life and her life mattered. Sending you many hugs.

At 6:18am on August 27, 2010, Jodi Denton said…
Shelly, I am still here and still thinking of you and your beautiful precious daughter,I hope you are doing ok.. I think of you offen even though we dont really know eachother.... your daughters beautiful eyes have captured my heart.
Thinking about you.
At 2:28am on August 2, 2010, Jodi Denton said…
Shelly... You are not alone.Your daughter is looking out for you, I know it, I can feel it.,Talk to her, Love her... she is not all the way gone.The body is just a shell to hold what really makes us us. The shell is gone but the soul remains with loved ones until it is time to meet again. .. You are not alone,my heart is also with you.
Praying you find peace,
Jodi
At 3:39am on July 31, 2010, Jodi Denton said…
Hi Again Shelly,
It's been a little over 2 weeks since my son died and I am feeling a little better but the nights are so hard for me. We used to watch a show or a movie before we went to bed and now there is nothing but quiet and I hate it and I dont know what to do with myself now.You are lucky that you have other children to make you happy and help you heal. Try to let go of the guilt that you werent there, I believe that it would have happened anyway because we all have a time to go no matter where we are or what we are doing. At the time my son lay dying I had just turned out my lights to go to bed..hows that for guilt?..it will drive us crazy if we let it..just try to think of the beautiful day that we will be with our children again instead if you can.
At 1:35am on July 30, 2010, Jodi Denton said…
Hi Shelly,
What a lovely girl your daughter is. I know you miss her alot and it is a hole that can never be filled, at least thats how it feels to me,like there is a hole where my heart used to be. Please pray that my son Jesse be let into the kingdom of heaven. I will pray for you and your daughter as well although your daughter looks like an angel already.
At 2:25pm on July 27, 2010, Jodi Denton said…
Hi Shelly,
I am sad to hear about your daughter and hope that you can find a way to lessen the pain, what is working for me if finding out who my son was when he wasnt with me. Any time you would like to talk you can reach me at JSLD68@aol.com
At 4:46pm on May 7, 2010, Anna B said…
Yes, WubbaNubs! I learned about them from a NICU nurse. And now they are my baby gift of choice.... spreading the WubbaNub love one baby at a time!
At 10:14pm on April 21, 2010, Suzanne Ballard said…
I am so sorry for your loss. Your daughter is beautiful...especially her eyes. you must be very proud of her.
 
 
 

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