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Permalink Reply by Sandra LaBonte on June 1, 2011 at 8:06pm

Fari, I think I must still be in some form of denial. I just can't accept that i will never see her again. I have panic attacks also. I end up running the 1/2 mile down the road to her accident spot. I think I exhaust myself so much that they pass.

Permalink Reply by farida narain on June 2, 2011 at 7:03pm

Sandra ,when and exactly how     didyour daughter die?  My daughter died in the Yukon where she worked for 5 years and on the evening she died she was on her way to a Pilates class .  She never made it, she was killed about 2 minutes from her home.  It was so tragic and I keep reliving the accident everyday.  Each morning I wake up hoping that it was just a nightmare and I was waking up from that horrible dream.  Then reality hits me and I know it's real and we can't see her anymore.  But myself and the rest of my family has seen lots of signs and we honestly believe that she is o.K.  After she died I was in complete shcok and disbelief for awhile and I was not even thinking of signs until they started to show up.  So Sandra, your child will send you signs but I know that it's not  going to make you feel very comforted because we just want our children back with us.  But Sandra there's many, many days when we all feel just like we are living in a shell and our lives have changed forever.  there's nothing we could do to bring them back and it is heartwrenching.

Permalink Reply by farida narain on June 2, 2011 at 7:08pm

Sandra ,when and exactly how     didyour daughter die?  My daughter died in the Yukon where she worked for 5 years and on the evening she died she was on her way to a Pilates class .  She never made it, she was killed about 2 minutes from her home.  It was so tragic and I keep reliving the accident everyday.  Each morning I wake up hoping that it was just a nightmare and I was waking up from that horrible dream.  Then reality hits me and I know it's real and we can't see her anymore.  But myself and the rest of my family has seen lots of signs and we honestly believe that she is o.K.  After she died I was in complete shcok and disbelief for awhile and I was not even thinking of signs until they started to show up.  So Sandra, your child will send you signs but I know that it's not  going to make you feel very comforted because we just want our children back with us.  But Sandra there's many, many days when we all feel just like we are living in a shell and our lives have changed forever.  there's nothing we could do to bring them back and it is heartwrenching.

Permalink Reply by Sandra LaBonte on June 2, 2011 at 8:35pm

Fari, Kasey died in a car accident. She was driving and she tried to make a left into heavy traffic. She pulled out in front of a truck. It was her fault. Her accident was 4-12-2011. She was declared brain dead on 4-14-11. She was 1 minute from home. Her best friend and her best friend's 3 year old were in the car with her. Her friend spent 5 weeks in the hospital, but is now home. The 3 year old did not get a scratch. Both girls were wearing seat belts and the 3 year old was in a car seat.

Permalink Reply by farida narain on June 2, 2011 at 7:22pm

Hi Terri, It's so very sad to read your letter about losing your son.  Accidents are the most cruel ,horrible way to lose our children.  To me accidents are caused by someone else's carelessness and it is preventable and we suffer because of  another person's fault.  Our children who were healthy and full of so much life and promise has been  so cruelly snatched away from us so suddenly.  We have been cheated.  The pain is very inexpressible and excruciating and we just have to live with it until we are called

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