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Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on October 15, 2015 at 3:38pm

sorry fr yore loss hd so mush loss sinse 2012 iv lots fingr 2 cont on 2 say hw mush u cud say 

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Permalink Reply by Christine Scullion on October 15, 2015 at 10:05pm

I'm sorry to hear that, it's never easy. I'm still feeling my aunt's
Death, and the funeral has passed, Wes all have one thing going here, losses, grief
And feeling empty. I say, keep your chin-up, things will get better.

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Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on October 16, 2015 at 2:05am

its not i feal brokn coz of loss of my dad so mush loss on top 

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Permalink Reply by Christine Scullion on October 16, 2015 at 9:58am

I know how hard it is to lose a very close relative, it hurts.
What you feel is normal. I get it, the grief is so bad that you feel like you won't be able to move on. I know that life does go on, it may take a while to feel any closure, losing a parent or grandparent is beyond painful, loss is lousy, but eventually, the major pain goes away, you may be grieve for the rest of your life, but in time, you will be able to move on again. Hang in there, you can more if you need to, that's what the board is for. God bless you, and I'm sorry about your dad.

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Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on October 16, 2015 at 3:51pm

misshim so mush dnt exspt sp musj mush ;oss aftr him 2 mush loss 2 anitis frinds famly nboz all in lst 2 or 2 3 yrs sise 2012 thn 2013 2014 2016 its 2 mush loss

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Permalink Reply by Christine Scullion on October 16, 2015 at 5:27pm

I know you are struggling, it's hard, try to keep
A positive attitude, things will get better. I just lost a close
Aunt, yes, it's painful, but hopefully, talking it out wil help.b
I talked to a priest from a local church. I tell you what, as much as I was hurting, he helped me feel better, he cas comforting and compassionate, he really helped me get through the worst part, talking for the first time about my aunt, hang in there dear, you will be fine.

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Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on October 17, 2015 at 2:03am

its lk a illns loss it is 

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Permalink Reply by Christine Scullion on October 17, 2015 at 9:33am

Yeah, loss is hard, but closure will set in, in my case. Closure
Happened when I talked about how I feel, but whatever you do, never keep t inside, eventually, you'll explode emotionally, and that isn't good, trust me, you will feel better, talking about it is a step in the right direction.

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Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on October 17, 2015 at 2:46pm

iv tryd bt all ov hd is get ovr it its easy ny 1s its nt had a loss its lk 3 stps ford 10 stps bak u cud say 

Permalink Reply by Christine Scullion on October 17, 2015 at 4:46pm

I know it seems impossible, but maybe what you need to do is
Take a day or two, bring out memories of your dad, and even have a good cry, maybe you never really took the time to let yourself grieve, if you have, then give it time, you need to try to go forward, it may take time, grief doesn't heal overnight.