The Hardest Part....

The hardest part of losing my fiance is that my baby girl will never know her daddy... She will not remember the 4 months she had with him.  He loved her so much and she made him a better person... the Light of his Life.  She deserves her daddy and he deserves her.  This is the one thing I can never give to her.

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Permalink Reply by Jennifer Blackwood on September 8, 2012 at 8:56pm

Kali, I'm so sorry that it had to happen that way! I can't imagine what you and that precious daughter is going through and will go through! My mother wanted to be a grandmother so bad, she was excited about it, and now that she's not here, I don't want to have any kids..I know that's not the same but I understand how you want your daughter to have her father around! I know people say that everything happens for a reason, and maybe it does, but I just have a hard time seeing it right now!

Permalink Reply by Kali Grainger on September 9, 2012 at 6:40pm

Ya I am having a hard time understanding what reason could be good enough for him being taken so early... I had always wanted to have 3-4 kids but now that Chris is gone I won't be having anymore.  My baby sister had a baby 3 weeks after me so my Ellis will have her cousin and they will be as close as sisters.  But nothing can take the hurt away from knowing she will never have her daddy.

Permalink Reply by Jennifer Blackwood on September 9, 2012 at 6:48pm

Of course, I understand that! My father is alive but he never wanted anything to do with me, so my mom had to play both roles so I can kinda understand what your daughter will go through but atleast she will know that he loved her with all of his heart! And I know that doesn't make it any better, but I think she will find comfort in knowing that when she gets older and understands! As far as for you, I will definitely keep you in my thoughts! I don't know what it's like to loss a partner, but I do understand that it's painful!

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