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I saw a post somewhere where the surviving spouse got rid of all departed belongings or at least stored it. I more or less incline to do that but at the samed time continue the legacy of the departed.Of course who the hell would remember me. Yes I want to change things at home. I have 35 yrs of memories Stuff to sort thru stuff to put in a scape book.Stuff to throw away.I get ideas as I go along.
Its a burden,Our life was a burden in the later years
D H Q
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thanks irwin and julie for your comments it helps tgo know there is support out there
I to have a lot of my wifes clothes and other things. she died almost 3 years ago. i been by myself since. my children hardly call me even though i leave messages. they live in other states. combat was easier then what I am going thru right now. my grief and depression is the most severe in my life. i truly see no happiness left in my life. I have gone for help several times but nothing had helped. I try to keep busy writing poems and the second part of my book. At the moment its 1 pm and I have not gotten out of the house because of how I feel. everything just looks dark. Have a great weekend and fathers day. irwin
its unreal how fast stuff accumulates when your just living your life together. i look at all of jason's stuff with good memories and yet at the same time overwhelmed. i guess just take your time and do a little when you can and/or maybe ask for help from someone close. wishing you well.
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