One month already? she passed away one month ago.So Iam wondering around out of control.True to form stepson and gradkids don,t call up .I have to learn to get out the there on my own. My wife used to bother her son with food and gifts.Oh yes her son skipped out years ago when she was out work leaving me hold the bag so to speak.Doesn,t even call up I could be dead laying in the bathtub.Of sourse he would try to get the house.I want to sell this house but I don,t want to be alone.Its hard to explain she was just existing,She would go to gaming rooms and play vidoe slots.Go to dialysis ,have heat and breathing problems and then die from it .The staff at south austin hospital did a wonderful job prolonging her life,making more insurance money .

Ahh I don,t know Her stay in CVRU 2 4th floor turned into a cluster F,,,,,,,k One day she was conscience and talking the next day she was a vegtable.The last stab in the back from her was she gave her rings to her son for safe keeping instead of me.

So Iam going to push through this I need support I need to meet people(this web site is a great first step)  I need to grow up

 

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Comment by irwin Dresner on June 27, 2012 at 7:57pm

HI David,  I can feel what you are going thru. I am truly sorry that your wife passed away. My wife passed away almost 3 years ago.  I been locked in grief and depression.  My children live in other states and I can go for weeks without a call from them. I seen them once in the almost 3 years since she died.  I also live by myself and I am sure that I am a lot older  then you as I was in the Korea War.   I went for grief help but with me it is still severe.  I hope that you feel better.  I have become a poet since she passed away and also wrote a few poems about my wife.  You can see my poems if you google----      irwin Dresner-poet.   Keep me informed how you are doing.  I care.     Irwin

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