The title says it all. I need to get out of this funk I've been in. Its been a week since I found out...when does it start getting easier? Everything has been suffering. I'm a stay at home mom. My relationship with my fiancee has been suffering. My housework has been suffering. This house looks a mess right now. My fiancee wants to spend time with me and I've just been sleeping nonstop. He understands so he doesnt press the issue, but I don't want my life to suffer because of this. I want to get out of the bed and just be myself again. Be ok. But I dont feel like thats going to happen ever again.

Views: 168

Comment

You need to be a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community to add comments!

Join Online Grief Support - A Social Community

Comment by anna l. on August 31, 2012 at 12:50am

Oh Becky, one week is just the beginning of your grief journey, Im sorry to say.  You are probably still numb and the sleeping all the time is part of the numbness.  If you can, you should contact a local grief support group and pick up some of their books on the grief process.  It will help you to understand everyone goes through the same things so you will be able to accept what is happening to yourself easier.  Your doctors office can probably give you the numbers to call.  Im not suggesting you go to meetings, just ask for their literature to read as you are able.

Latest Activity

Krystal Swinehart updated their profile
Jun 9
Profile IconJennifer Gilbert and Emma Jansen joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Jun 9
BYRON MILLER and N A are now friends
Jun 7
N A commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"@byron miller we are all here for you,i already sent a request. you can always reach out."
Jun 7
N A updated their profile
Jun 7
BYRON MILLER commented on Jon-Paul Ackerman's group Lost My Spouse...
"MY NAME IS BYRON. MY WIFE BRENDA DIED IN ICU TRURO HOSPITAL JANUARY 27, 2026. SHE WAS VERY SICK AND IN PAIN. WE WERE TOGETHER FOR 30 YEARS AND MARRIED 25 ON  JUNE 16TH, 2026. BUT MY HONEY DIDN'T MAKE IT. NOW I'M LEFT ALONE IN AN…"
Jun 5
BYRON MILLER joined Jon-Paul Ackerman's group
Jun 5
BYRON MILLER posted photos
Jun 5

© 2026   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service