She always took care of everthing. Somethings she did were financially bad.I knew better to go up Aginst her.So she ran into a brick wall.The hospital always fixed things. We were all niave on what was going on.She was a dialysis patient so going in for major medical surgery did not go well.

So now Iam doing it alone Will lt ever come together ,I suppose it will. I suffer bouts of depression ,Iam sure everyone does that looses a loved one In my life she was always off somewhere 

Was it a unique love hate relationship yes. Would it have ended in disaster or would we have grown old together ,No we wouldn,t have grown old together

 

Dave

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Comment by David H on June 9, 2012 at 6:06pm

thanks for your reply. Life isn,t handed to on a golden platter. I personally haven,t tried as hard as I could to seek help. I can understand about relatives. I asked my grandson specifically to call me after the viewing and have not got a call (maby one ) she passed amy 26,2012. So after posting Iam going to look up medicare mental health doctors on my own

Comment by irwin Dresner on June 8, 2012 at 9:01pm

Hi Dave,  I can understand what you are going thru.  I am going thru simular problems.  My wife passed away 2-1/2 years ago.  My children live in other states and there are times that they do not call me for over a week even though I call and leave a message.   I am all by myself but I eat 3 healthy meals every day.  I have no problem cooking as I cooked my entire married life as she said I was the better cook.  As far as depression goes I have had depression my entire life.   In 1996 I had the first part of my life story about my depression copyrighted.   I was in combat during the Korean War. My grief today was the worse that I had ever suffered.   Have you gone for help?  I had but I am still suffering so I may look for more help.    I am now into poem writing.  If you google my name (Irwin Dresner-POET)  you will see a number of my poems.   Please feel free to write me any time If I can help.    Have a good weekend.     Irwin     

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