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Comment by bluebird on May 20, 2016 at 8:01pm

Alice, i know what you mean -- if people think we will find and be with another, then they have not been listening to us, and/or they don't believe the truth of the feelings we have for our soulmates and they for us.

You and Mori are lucky that you have faith in the continued existence of your soulmates.  I hope beyond everything that my husband's beautiful soul still exists, but i just don't know.

Comment by bluebird on May 14, 2016 at 8:32pm

I very much understand. I will not ever be with anyone other than my husband. I have absolutely zero interest in doing so. We are married, and we always will be.  I will not abide by anyone saying to me "Oh, you're still young, you will find someone else".  No.  I very quickly put them straight, I tell them that I will not ever be with anyone else, will not ever date anyone else, my beloved husband and I are and always will be married, period. 

I think people make that kind of stupid statement partly because they want to make us feel better and think that might do it (they don't realize that for some of us, we are simply never going to "feel better", that we are now stuck in hell), and partly because it's kind of a way for them to feel better, imagining that we will somehow "get over" the deaths of our beloved soulmates.   I guess some people do eventually decide to date and possibly remarry; personally, I don't understand that in the least, but whatever, that's their life and their choice -- but for me, that will never happen, the very idea is anathema.