I saw someone I knew today, she came over and hugged me and told me how sorry she was to hear about Andy, and she proceeded to have a proper conversation with me , which is so rare these days as most people I know seem to avoid me now, I think that don't know what to say to me , anyway I was thinking how lovely and kind she was , and then she uttered the words"but your only 42 you will meet someone else one day" for fucks sake, why do people always say this to me , it drives me mad , and quite frankly I find it really offensive, can they not understand I never want any one else , no one else will ever make me happy and I will not do 2nd best, I can't think off anything worse than being near another man, I won't, I believe that you have one soul mate in this world and I had mine, and he's still mine, he will always be mine, anyone else would simply be a lie, I accept that I will go though this life alone, and I'm ok with that, just because Andy has died doesn't mean I will betray him , I wouldn't if he was alive and I certainly won't now he's not here, I love him always. I've had a few friends say the same thing to me , but as none of them have had to watch their husbands die , it makes me angry that by saying, oh you'll meet someone new, means in someway I'll get over his death , but I won't , I never will EVER.
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