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I lost my soulmate and father to my son on april 3rd of this year. he was killed in an industrial accident at work. its been less then 2 months so far but so many people are telling me already its time to move on. how do you tell your heart to stop feeling when you were with someone for 10 years,im lost and feel somewhat out of control. I find myself turning to alcohol and other vices to ease the pain I feel. which of course gives others yet another chance to shame me and feel like they know what it is I need or should be doing. anyway not sure anyone will ever read this but here it is. I am sure I will write more soon. 

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Comment by leslie-ann smith on May 29, 2015 at 10:40pm

I am so sorry to hear about ur loss. I lost my husband that I've been with for 7 years on March 4th of this year. He passed away bc of an illness 1 day before our 3 year wedding anniversary. 

I have the same people telling me the same thing. Move on,  go on a date,  so on. Im bit Ray. He was my soul mate, and my best friend. I miss him every day. 

Once again im sorry for ur loss.  If u want to talk im here

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 26, 2015 at 5:08pm

im so sorry dad died in 2012 3.3 loss non stop 

simler 2 u drink2 num b pain ut stilld tn num pain tryed weed still dotn num pain 

im so sorry for yore loss 

im not a bad person  coz iv tryed weed its so mush loss

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