I joined this group and then stopped visiting for a while. I think I hit a denial stage where I just wanted to avoid anything that made it real. I lost my boyfriend on July 14 in a motorcycle accident. The weeks since have been a journey I wouldn't wish on anyone. I mourn for him, but selfishly I feel I mourn for what we should have had but never got the chance. I should have had years with him and I didn't get it. I'm almost 40 and, finally, had found the love of my life and he was taken from me.

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Comment by Rhonda Baertsch on September 24, 2011 at 7:56am
Thank you Panni. It does help to know that we are not the only people suffering like this. It's true that misery loves company. Even though I wish this kind of pain didn't exist and I could somehow stop it for the entire world, if we must have it, at least we have it together.

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