There are so many things that people say that they think will help make you feel better when you're grieving-

"You're going to be ok."

"The pain will go away."

"You're not the first person to go through this."

My new personal favorite is "The year of the firsts is the worst".  Really?  I've now gone through my first Easter, Mother's Day, and my birthday without my husband.  My son and I am going to spend our first Father's Day without him, and you expect…