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Violet R Schulert Endres
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ongoing relationship
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I feel Dan and I have an ongoing relationship and I think its a gift...not sure I can tell everybody tht. they wont understand..will tell me im not "getting on with my life" sick of that phrase. I…Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by Violet R Schulert Endres Aug 18, 2013.
miss dan
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so much... Continue
Started this discussion. Last reply by Violet R Schulert Endres Apr 30, 2013.
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- About Me:
- I am an artist and poet and disabled. Im almost 50 yrs old.
- About my Loss:
- my husband, Dan, of 73 days just died feb 27 at 2:05. I watched him die, I held his hand.. it was soo painful. I miss him horrible. we only knew each other 6 yrs..yet it felt like a lift time...I love him so much.
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thinking
Ive been thinkuing , there is , actually are many dreams and plans dan and I had, other day I started thinking about one of them, actually Ive been thinking about doing it for years..off and on, never has seemed to be the right time.. still isnt but Im hoping in a couple yrs to be healed enough..I want to adopt an older child. a girl, a teen ager.. alot to workout and learn and think about but...please pray or think good thoughts....for me on this...Im doing alot of reasearch.
Posted on September 10, 2013 at 5:07pm
sept 18th
I am so sad and depressed totally, cant hardly move.. dan birthday is coming soon. on he 18th.. Im having a getogether with close friend..plan to cry all day.. dreading the next few months.. so angry mostly at God...I know Ddan'saroundbut ..I just.. its so hard..
Posted on August 31, 2013 at 7:58pm
why i hate the hospital
Didnt sleep last night
APRIL 16, 2013
STRESS… I assume its part of my grief..I didnt sleep last night…at all….finally slept about 9am and most the day….but I’ve been thinking about the hospital…..I’m terrified of that place…scared to death….never felt this bad before…about it…worse than when he was there…….. going to see my therapist tomorrow. I’m told these feelings are normal…..
why i felt stressed…at the…
ContinuePosted on April 16, 2013 at 12:08am
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One more book I would recommend is Crossing the Threshold of Eternity by Robert Wise
http://www.amazon.com/Crossing-Threshold-Eternity-Dying-Living/dp/0830743707
Hello,
my name is Laurie and I read your post on the diagnosis of your terminal illness. Words are so inadequate at times but I was saddened as I read your story. I have a link to a blog on grief that has many links on it about terminal illness...I believe your local hospice center may have on site meetings for terminally ill...it probably depends on the community how good the group would be.
http://www.griefhealingblog.com/search/label/terminal%20illness
I also thought this book was rather good
http://www.amazon.com/Final-Gifts-Understanding-Awareness-Communications/dp/1451667256
I just thought I would put out a response...after losing two sons, it does shift one's perspective on life and death.
Prayers for comfort.
Laurie
I John 1:5 God is light; in Him there is no darkness at all.
Dear Violet:
I just read your post. So sorry about your loss.
All that you are receiving from your beloved comes from God, pay no attention if they tell you otherwise.
You might want to read "Journey of Souls" it helped me.
God bless you, and give you strength
Martha