Lisa Westgate
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  • Brockton, MA
  • United States
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About Me:
I am a 33 year old female. I am newly married. I am new to this and looking for others that can understand what I am going through. More than that I am looking for ways to cope with the sadness I feel daily.
About my Loss:
Three weeks after my sweet 16th birthday my father died. I didn't know how to approach this thought and denied it for years. I went on thinking it wasn't real. As time went by it started to set in and made me think about my family differently, like the fact that one day they aren't going to be there for me to take for granted. So, I became extremely close to my family after that. Life goes on any way you look at it but it's tougher to have the losses that seem like the suffering will never subside. Then on May 3, 2010 we lost our baby girl at 6 months along. I'm destroyed by it and working very hard to keep the smile on my face and not fall apart at every moment. I have a huge support system but being my friend nobody wants me to hurt by talking about it. I am at a loss to help my husband try to cope as well. I feel lost and miss my baby girl. Two weeks later we had to put down our family dog due to cancer. Then this past Thursday May 27th I lost my gramma. It seems as though there is a dark cloud above me that doesn't seem to want to go elsewhere. Anyone feel like talking?
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At 1:13pm on March 3, 2017, Angela said…

Thanks Lisa I enjoyed our chats too :) and yes I'm hanging in there. Hope you are doing well. Take care and don't forget to smile :) 

At 10:35pm on January 22, 2017, Lisa Westgate said…
Just thinking of all of you that I have chatted with and may need a smile.
At 12:21am on April 17, 2014, Lisa Westgate said…
I feel so alone right now.
At 10:09am on January 20, 2014, bobbie said…

hi, hope you are doing ok.have a good week

At 9:05pm on August 23, 2011, Jodi Denton said…
I hope you are able to find some peace soon. i know it's hard.
At 10:05pm on August 7, 2011, Adriene M. Peruzzi said…
Thanks for the kind words. I feel so alone right now. I lost my sole bread winner, my mentor, my friend, my mom ( in many ways she was), and my companion.Its so hard to loose someone that you are so close to. Thanks again for stopping by and leaving words for me. I appreciate that a lot. Hugs to you.
At 11:32pm on July 13, 2011, theresa ouellette (wells) said…

not sue i am new at this site

 

At 11:05pm on July 13, 2011, theresa ouellette (wells) said…
sorry it took so long its nothing like my facebook
At 4:59am on August 27, 2010, Jodi Denton said…
Thanks Lisa.
At 1:06am on July 28, 2010, Jodi Denton said…
I am truly sorry for all the losses you have endured.
I would love to talk to you anytime you need to talk because I need to talk sometimes too.
JSLD68@aol.com
 
 
 

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