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Comment by Judith Brandl on January 27, 2014 at 11:19pm

I just want to say that even though I don't come on this website often, I am so grateful that it's here for everyone. I feel that I can't possibly expect the people in my life to understand my grief so it's nice to have this place to express it. My husband has been gone a year and three months. I'm just starting to really grieve. The profound sense of being without him is just sinking in. I'm finally allowing myself to go through photo's of all the good times we once had. I've hid from it all this time but I guess I feel like I can start to say goodbye. I thank God for this site and this group. I do believe, at least for myself that each time I lose someone it's worse, it never gets any easier. I know it is just a part of life I have to except so I'll focus on anything good that I can, and I'm so grateful for my grandchildren. Loss has taught me to always express to people how much I love them because life is fragile and can be taken so quickly.

Comment by dream moon JO B on October 8, 2013 at 3:29pm

hi angel sory abot yore losses big c i cnt evn say ths horbl wrd i cnt iv lost so mny aftr my dad frind of fmly nboz othr fmly mebers lst 1 wz only lst wk wish m mum saw in obistry notics anr 1 of my dads cuznes lst funrell wz i at wz antr 1 of my dads cuznes i feal lk death of lovd 1s is folring me all ovr 

sad thng is i only sea family at funrells i do i wish it wz a party i wud sea thm not a funrell thn wake its jst sad coz we all ful tears at funrells

a big hug frm me angel

Comment by Angel on October 8, 2013 at 12:25pm

Hi everyone....I am not new to this forum...I am on the 'losing someone to cancer ' at times....since I have lost 3 in a very short time to cancer...and " missing my son/daughter" because I lost my 21 year old daughter.....16 years ago....I decided to stop in here....because I can no longer deal with 9 losses in a short period of time....the last being my husband not quite 3 years ago at age 54 to a horrible painful cancer....I don't think I have recovered from being his only caregiver for 3 1/2 years....no one else...no one leant a hand...I've been strong but I don't want to be anymore....I have started to volunteer and don't really want to....I want to be left alone...because basically I am most of the time....my husband was there through all the losses....but there is no one with his.....I have 2 grown daughters who extend themselves beyond what any daughter should have to.....BUT they have their own lives....I am in my 50's....and pray to God everyday that he helps me build a new life for me.....that He brings me peace and comfort.....some companionship....out of all those deaths....3 were my closest girlfriends from grade school...the aloness is killing me and I don't know what else to do...I am tired of living alone, sleeping alone, eating alone, shopping alone........I wish you all peace....Angel

Comment by bobbie on July 24, 2013 at 2:54pm

I don't know how to go on anymore i lost my mother in dec 2012 and my sister in oct 2013 and my dad dec 2013 all is left is me and my brother and we don't speak i feel so alone

Comment by dream moon JO B on July 15, 2013 at 3:33pm

i no how u feal abot losses kyla i lost my dad wish is very had to acsept still i had loss befor him evn after him i had a lot of peple die im my lif frm cuzens to nbors frinds of th family so on surgate uncle not my real uncle but i caled him uncle he woz my dads bst mate he woz 

i no u feal sic tired of peple dieing in y lif 2 i dernt it lok in th obestery notic 

Comment by dream moon JO B on May 18, 2013 at 4:12pm

i no whot u mean lynn th losses iv had aftr my dad lst yr thn 2013 i woz hoping for grt strt to 2013 woz wong iv had a lot of death of peple i no i keap on thnking thes silly nmorbid forts of my own life lik is th grim reaper aftr me 

i juts wish th death o f peple i no wud slow don a bit i no now evry funrell iv bean 2 brings it all bac to my dads funrell it brings bac all th painfull memrys

thn iv had silly coments off som of th family or frinds get ovr it its easy

iv asket thm how do u no u hav nevr lots any 1 all thy say its easy all i no its not easy its to painfull 

all i no iv bean drinking hevy on off to numb th pain i no its not th anser iv cut doon for a bit thn i slip up thn start drinking hevry again not meaning to

Comment by Karlene on May 18, 2013 at 12:34pm

Thank you. That's the good thing about work, I have to get up and keep moving. Monday will be tough when I say my final goodbye. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend enjoying those they love.

Comment by lynn m on May 18, 2013 at 11:46am

In Aug of 2007 I lost my husband, in 3/09 my mom. Then my sister was re-diagnosed with breast cancer 7/09 and fought the brave battle until 11/10. Just over 1 year later on Nov 22, 2011 my brother unexpectedly passed while visiting his daughter and grands. Some days my grief is so heavy I can barey get up from the floor.

Comment by anna l. on May 17, 2013 at 8:56pm

Karlene, Im very sorry for the painful loss of your dear friend.  Yes, new losses bring up old grief.  Try to be good to yourself as you go through this time. 

Comment by Karlene on May 17, 2013 at 7:00pm

My friend lost her battle to cancer today. Oddly enough, I awoke from a sound sleep at 1243 a.m.. Her husband told me that's the time she passed. I think she came to say goodbye on her journey. Rest in peace, Maria. I love you.

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