Janet Shores Hoogendyk
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  • Weimar, CA
  • United States
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Murder, Suicide, And living in fear
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I don't even know if I can do this. My mind is weary and my thoughts are scattered. And death is all around me. In fact it consumes me as I still search for answers and try to understand them all. My…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Janet Shores Hoogendyk Jul 30, 2016.

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About Me:
I love my animals. I have 2 little dogs. they are my reason for getting out of bed each day
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whew, well ok my mommy committed suicide with a gun o her head and then my dads new girlfriend was found dead in the same bed I was asleep in with her, then my sister sandy was murdered, then my dad died in that same house right in front of me when i was 15, then my other sister committed suicide and then I came home and found my fiancée dead..But in 2012 my closest sister tammy was murdered by her insane boyfriend and she was my everything and the one I cant get past. the one that keeps me stuck in a dark place I cant find my way out of.

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At 6:57pm on April 27, 2016, Steve Suehiro said…

Janet, I am so sorry to hear about your multiple losses of loved ones.  I lost my young wife unexpectedly in 2014 and though I am a funeral director and deal with loss professionally on a daily basis on top of dealing with my own loss, I cannot begin to imagine how you must feel right now. 

Thank you for joining my group "Questions? Honest answers from a Death Care Professional" 

Please know that if I can be of help to you or answer any questions you might have, all you need to do is ask.  If you don't feel comfortable asking in the group, please feel free to private message me. 

Take care

-Steve Suehiro

 
 
 

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