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Comment by Debbie Wilhelm on December 31, 2011 at 11:14am

I am having alot of trouble lately dealing with the death of my son, Jimmy.  I just can't accept that God would take  a 22  yo with him so soon.  I miss him everyday so much more, and I don't know how to deal with all the anger towards the drunk driver for taking my precious son's life.  I love you and miss you Jimmy everyday and every minute

Comment by Dick on December 30, 2011 at 9:41pm

@Mandy, a lot of the pictures in the video are on your page as well.

Comment by Frances Cope on December 30, 2011 at 7:11pm

We so miss our dear sweet son Jason.  Our life has changed so much!

 

 

Comment by Karen R. on December 30, 2011 at 9:33am

Hey Mandy, some people should really think long and hard before they speak! Obviously that person that "suggested" that you simply have another child, either 1, still has all of her children or 2, does not have any children! People are not REPLACEABLE! I know how much it angered and hurt you when she said that to you. Our children are not just a "memory" to us! They are our children, our babies, they will always be. They had a life! I want my son here with me,  I will NEVER accept this.

Many hugs.

Comment by Dick on December 30, 2011 at 9:30am

Not looking forward to New Years, feels like I am leaving Danny behind.

Comment by Lorraine on December 29, 2011 at 8:24pm

Does anyone else feel the dread of a new year because it means another year your child has been gone?  It is so difficult to think about, it will be 4 years this coming May since Silas died, and I can't bear to think about it.  It hasn't gotten easier, just longer... sending love to all friends here~

Comment by Michele Dybdall on December 29, 2011 at 3:51pm

Although my grief is not new (almost 3 years now), I am new to this group.  I appreciate all the honesty I have seen and read since finding this on-line community. I have felt so very alone for so long (like being in a 1 person club).  I am grateful that you are all willing to share your hearts.  Just because my son is no longer with us, doesn't mean I want to stop talking about him.  But I believe it makes most people I'm normally around feel uncomfortable when I do.  They don't understand and don't know what to say in return, so I in turn don't say a whole lot so I don't make them feel uncomfortable.  My husband and I aren't on the same page in the grieving area either, which makes it very difficult.  To comment on Mary & Lorie's post, I still have my son's name in my phone too!  I dialed his number once and someone already had his old number.  That was kind of hard.

Comment by Mary Elizabeth Dolnick on December 29, 2011 at 2:03pm

Lorie,

Little different for me...I want to sell our houe since Dan was living with us for a few years....too many memories, when I go in his room I just sit and cry..I can see him cooking me up something special in my kitchen...and then everytime my grandkids come over they go to the intercom because he use to play and talk to them on there....they want to talk to Uncle Danny...it breaks my heart

Comment by Lorie Dunn on December 29, 2011 at 1:59pm

Mary, I still have Hunters # in my phone. There is a lighter in my glovebox that I took away from him the night before he died (he smoked and I didnt approve)..I cant bring myself to take that lighter outta my car and its been 2 years. I have also discovered that I cant move out of my apartment (into one closer to work) because Hunter had been to this apartment.

Comment by Mary Elizabeth Dolnick on December 29, 2011 at 1:49pm

I can't get myself to take his name and number off my phone and email.....it feels like I would be letting him go......I still have his ashes I am not ready to spread them where he wanted and I find myself holding him and crying...then I figure if anyone knew this they would put me away, but I think you all understand so I can tell you.....am I crazy?

 

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