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Comment by Jane P on April 25, 2013 at 6:37am

I am so sad for all of us. Our child is gone. Life is empty. No one understands us. It is a dark place.

Comment by linda hernandez on April 25, 2013 at 6:24am

it has been nine months now my son has gone,in a couple of months it will be his birthday,holidays has come and gone and as each  one goes by a tear will run down my face cause i so wish he was here with me he would have been 40 this year,i so wanted to be the one to go and have him to live long and have children and marry the women he loved but life is strange how it plays out

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on April 25, 2013 at 1:24am

I do the same Teresa. Our world as we knew it will never be the same. I'm so sorry. For all of us.

Comment by Teresa D. on April 23, 2013 at 11:09pm

I keep coming to the site and all I do is stare at the screen and cry. 

I miss my son so bad I feel physically ill.  Just like most parents a part of me died that day.  I wish someone could tell me the perfect words to make the pain go away but I know no one can. 

I keep calling his phone knowing he will never answer. I look for him even though I know I'll never find him.

Comment by Ann Edmondson on April 23, 2013 at 8:46pm

B. Milt ~ I am sorry you are a member of this group. Please know you are in my prayers. Special hugs today.{{{hugs}}}

Comment by Bern on April 23, 2013 at 7:02pm

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6 months and my son is gone. My 20 year marriage is gone too. We do nothing but fuss toward each other. If you ever loss a child and married, you will pay double. You will crying over your child ALONE. YOU WILL CRY AND WISH YOUR MARRIAGE WOULD BE HAPPY  together AGAIN.

We can not talk anymore.

We have nothing else to say.

I look at him and I avoid saying how much we miss him cause I would burst into tears. I ride in the truck with him in silence. I just want you to know how it really is.

Comment by Sophia on April 23, 2013 at 9:18am

Anyone know of a grief group in the Chicago &/or suburb area?

Comment by Sophia on April 23, 2013 at 9:08am

Linda Hernandez, very nicely written. Thank you for your words of encouragement-it helps to hear it from another grieving parent who knows the pain we feel.

Comment by Sophia on April 23, 2013 at 9:01am

So very accurate to say it doesn't get easier because every day we're further away from the last day we saw/spoke to our children. It's heart breaking, to say the least, to lose a child & people's behavior/reactions toward us just adds to the sadness & feelings of loss. I buried my oldest child & I lost friends - people I've known for 20-30 yrs because I'm not the same person. But were they ever REAL, TRUE FRIENDS? I'm divorced, I don't talk to my friends & I feel like Im just going through the motions. When I smile or laugh it's always half hearted. Life will never be the same & I hope & pray I see my Jimmy again.

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on April 22, 2013 at 2:46am

Karen
Was he your only boy? I have 2 girls but my son was the only boy. I miss having a boy.

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