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Teresa I am so glad you decided to keep this things ... no one can tell you what to do with them. I had some well meaning friends who decided while I was with my other children in the hospital the day my daughter was killed, cleaned out her large work bag that had all kinds of bits and pieces in it.
Was really hurt that hey had removed every bit from that bag .... the last train ticket, tissues, everything that smelt of her. That was the last evidence of her
Thanks RJ just the fact that someone has replied to my comment makes me feel that I am not alone..... Thank you very very much
Dolly we'll never throw you out. How ignorant, but I also found out that we are just too sad for some people. I discovered some deleted me from facebook, but I don't care.
Ammy, I agree I don't think I should have been making decisions and I don't think I should have been driving. But people see us on the outside not realizing how broken we are on the inside.
I think we hold onto what we need to. We don't hurt anyone by doing it.
New Normal ? ? ?
What is this "new normal" that Ive been told I walk now... doesn't feel very normal ... it feels like I'm just going through life till it's time for me to die, everything I do is tainted with grief, how do you walk this walk now; nothing is normal anymore and Im sick of hearing this frase "new normal". ahhhhhh
It's been 7 years since since she was killed and my life as I knew it changed I guess it's like being as close to being a zobie, just walking around numb.
Has anyone got any helpful advise
Dolly,
People who have not walked in our shoes do not understand our pain. I am so sorry that they put you through that horrible experience. Hopefully soon I can wear one of Troys shirts. I would love to feel a "hug" from him!
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