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Comment by Sharon Robertson on June 23, 2015 at 7:03pm

Thanks RJ just the fact that someone has replied to my comment makes me feel that I am not alone..... Thank you very very much

Comment by Rj on June 23, 2015 at 6:59pm

So agree teresa..

Comment by Teresa D. on June 23, 2015 at 6:56pm

Dolly we'll never throw you out.  How ignorant, but I also found out that we are just too sad for some people.  I discovered some deleted me from facebook, but I don't care.

Ammy, I agree I don't think I should have been making decisions and I don't think I should have been driving.  But people see us on the outside not realizing how broken we are on the inside.

I think we hold onto what we need to. We don't hurt anyone by doing it. 

Comment by Rj on June 23, 2015 at 6:47pm

Sweet sharon....im very new, my son left ne feb 1st.....like you, im a zombie on a good day,just means i got out of bed. And its been 7 years for you? Oh dear God....

Comment by Sharon Robertson on June 23, 2015 at 6:31pm

New Normal ? ? ?

What is this "new normal" that Ive been told I walk now... doesn't feel very normal ... it feels like I'm just going through life  till it's time for me to die, everything I do is tainted with grief, how do you walk this walk now; nothing is normal anymore and Im sick of hearing this frase "new normal". ahhhhhh

It's been 7 years since since she was killed and my life as I knew it changed I guess it's like being as close to being a zobie, just walking around numb.

Has anyone got any helpful advise 

Comment by Rj on June 23, 2015 at 6:16pm

How i miss my boy...my life

Comment by Rj on June 23, 2015 at 6:14pm

I have larrys flannel robe...ohhh how much comfort i get from that

Comment by Sharon on June 23, 2015 at 5:59pm

Dolly,

People who have not walked in our shoes do not understand our pain. I am so sorry that they put you through that horrible experience. Hopefully soon I can wear one of Troys shirts. I would love to feel a "hug" from him!

Comment by Ammy on June 23, 2015 at 2:35pm

Teresa, I am like you in that I can't part with anything anymore.  I regret so much that the day after my son left us my daughter came here and said we needed to get rid of his clothes.  I am so grateful that I only let her bag up what was in his laundry basket, and yet I feel a little anger that it was done.  We aren't thinking straight and should not do anything for quite awhile if you ask me.
I don't know if you saw that I did thank you last week for thinking of us on his birthday.  I posted a few pics but I think I will be deleting them.  I'm so paranoid thinking my daughters may find me on here because they know I belong to a couple of groups and here and there is where we can be ourselves.  I do believe that they are more understanding now that this is for the rest of my life and I'm never going to be who I was before.

Take care everyone.  Try not to look back and don't look ahead.  Focus on today.  Today is all we have for now.  {{{Hugs}}}

Comment by Ammy on June 23, 2015 at 2:28pm

I remember that pic from last year Dolly.  It's so unique.  To me it looks like it should have water flowing from the top set to the bottom one.  Thanks for sharing it again.

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