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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Please share your Story = the Loss of your Son or Daughter 467 Replies

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STUPID things people say... " Vent Here " 182 Replies

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Do you ever feel like your pain from the sadness of losing your child, only intensifies as times goes by? 163 Replies

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Lost Faith 58 Replies

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Comment by Sharon Robertson on June 23, 2015 at 7:09pm

Teresa I am so glad you decided to keep this things ... no one can tell you what to do with them. I had some well meaning friends who decided while I was with my other children in the hospital the day my daughter was killed, cleaned out her large work bag that had all kinds of bits and pieces in it.

Was really hurt that hey had removed every bit from that bag .... the last train ticket, tissues, everything that smelt of her. That was the last evidence of her 

Comment by Rj on June 23, 2015 at 7:04pm
Its so draining just to exist every day isn't it?? Days roll into weeks, weeks roll into months. Not sure how much "better" things would be by now if i had more children but i sure do miss hearing mom. No calls, texts, visits, nothing, poof ...gone. Wth...i cant deal most days
Comment by Sharon Robertson on June 23, 2015 at 7:03pm

Thanks RJ just the fact that someone has replied to my comment makes me feel that I am not alone..... Thank you very very much

Comment by Rj on June 23, 2015 at 6:59pm
So agree teresa..
Comment by Teresa D. on June 23, 2015 at 6:56pm

Dolly we'll never throw you out.  How ignorant, but I also found out that we are just too sad for some people.  I discovered some deleted me from facebook, but I don't care.

Ammy, I agree I don't think I should have been making decisions and I don't think I should have been driving.  But people see us on the outside not realizing how broken we are on the inside.

I think we hold onto what we need to. We don't hurt anyone by doing it. 

Comment by Rj on June 23, 2015 at 6:47pm
Sweet sharon....im very new, my son left ne feb 1st.....like you, im a zombie on a good day,just means i got out of bed. And its been 7 years for you? Oh dear God....
Comment by Sharon Robertson on June 23, 2015 at 6:31pm

New Normal ? ? ?

What is this "new normal" that Ive been told I walk now... doesn't feel very normal ... it feels like I'm just going through life  till it's time for me to die, everything I do is tainted with grief, how do you walk this walk now; nothing is normal anymore and Im sick of hearing this frase "new normal". ahhhhhh

It's been 7 years since since she was killed and my life as I knew it changed I guess it's like being as close to being a zobie, just walking around numb.

Has anyone got any helpful advise 

Comment by Rj on June 23, 2015 at 6:16pm
How i miss my boy...my life
Comment by Rj on June 23, 2015 at 6:14pm
I have larrys flannel robe...ohhh how much comfort i get from that
Comment by Sharon on June 23, 2015 at 5:59pm

Dolly,

People who have not walked in our shoes do not understand our pain. I am so sorry that they put you through that horrible experience. Hopefully soon I can wear one of Troys shirts. I would love to feel a "hug" from him!

 

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